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Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 11:34 AM
It does, doesn't it Luke ?? Like I said .... I can't imagine why this Island was chosen as a vacation spot for 140 kids with NO chaperones ....
JMOOh, look, another one escaped Aruba.
Martinez spent eight weeks in Aruba covering the disappearance of Natalee Holloway for WBRC, Fox News Channel and CNN, often landing exclusive interviews. Her reports were picked up worldwide, and upon her return from Aruba, she continued to work as a frequent contributor to Fox News Channel.
http://cbs2chicago.com/bios/mai.martinez.wbbm.9.291745.html
http://image.cbslocal.com/175x131/mai_martinez2.jpg
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 11:38 AM
Thanks, I hadn't heard that. But why would that be important? Was the daughter living at home? I can see that would be a factor, if she was.
I gotta go for the rest of the day, if I have time tomorrow I'll look up what Jug had said about the number of years dating. I'm pretty sure she says 3 in the book. IIRC.Perhaps they didn't want one event to detract from the other.
Remember Beth took off the summer to get Natalee ready for college. She is quite the planner.
JustMyOpinion
10-18-2007, 11:55 AM
The book is an Aruba bash, and not even subtly done.
IMO
Have you read it?
ortiga
10-18-2007, 12:02 PM
JUG TWITTY, NATALEE`S STEPFATHER: I would say the same thing. Beth and I have been married now five years, but we dated about eight years, moving from Mississippi.
GRACE: Didn`t want to rush into anything, eight year
http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0510/03/ng.01.html
Loving Natalee: Chapter 1:
"After I had been divorced from the children's father for about seven years, I met George "Jug" Twitty while he was on business in Mississippi. We dated for about three years before marrying in 2000. Matt and Natalee absolutely loved his two older children, Megan and George, and looked forward to moving to the lovely bedroom community of Mountain Brook in Birmingham, Alabama, to join their new family and start their new life."
ortiga
10-18-2007, 12:03 PM
Have you read it?
In the process. You?
JustMyOpinion
10-18-2007, 12:08 PM
In the process. You?
Haven't read it.
Published reviewers do not opine the book is "an Aruba bash", though.
ArubaSteve
10-18-2007, 12:08 PM
Does anyone know if during Beths Bible Belt lectures, tours and seminars if she mentions the missing children of Alabama? Are any children missing in Birmingham that are worthy of her tenacity? Or is she simply fixated on Aruba whose only missing tourist in its history (that I am aware of) is Natalee. I don't blame her for her struggle but I think she should also look to her own home town. I bet there are thousands of missing children, in her home town and if the police were on the ball, there would be less I'm sure. If Heyes thinks the Aruba police are out eating donuts, then maybe the Birmingham police are out drinking moonshine and should sober up.
ortiga
10-18-2007, 12:10 PM
Haven't read it.
Published reviewers do not opine the book is "an Aruba bash", though.
"Published reviewers"? Just to get it clear, do you consider a "review" posted anonymously on Amazon a...."published review"?
JustMyOpinion
10-18-2007, 12:27 PM
"Published reviewers"? Just to get it clear, do you consider a "review" posted anonymously on Amazon a...."published review"?
Nope.
No Nic
10-18-2007, 12:30 PM
Does anyone know if during Beths Bible Belt lectures, tours and seminars if she mentions the missing children of Alabama? Are any children missing in Birmingham that are worthy of her tenacity? Or is she simply fixated on Aruba whose only missing tourist in its history (that I am aware of) is Natalee. I don't blame her for her struggle but I think she should also look to her own home town. I bet there are thousands of missing children, in her home town and if the police were on the ball, there would be less I'm sure. If Heyes thinks the Aruba police are out eating donuts, then maybe the Birmingham police are out drinking moonshine and should sober up.
Sadly, everyone forgets about Willard "Bud" Larson who went missing without a trace in Aruba approx. 5 years prior to Natalee's disappearance. From all accounts reported by his family, they were treated the same way by ALE/Aruban Officials and to this day do not know what happened to their loved one. I say the Larson case is cooboration of how missing tourist cases are handled in Aruba.
Has Aruba ever found a missing tourist, oh wait, it seems that when a missing tourist's money is all gone, they are released from the crack houses and ALE can then find them.
If my child were gone without a trace, forgive me, but that is the child that I would focus on. I am sure that the parents of other missing children are also focusing on their child and not Beth's child. :rolleyes:
imo
No Nic
10-18-2007, 01:09 PM
,<snipped>
when the author of the book claims things placed in quotations are not necessarily accurate ???
JMO
Beth said "Quotation marks are used in the book for the purposes of readablity, not necessarily to indicate that the words in quotes are accurate."
<snipped>
IMO
Please tell me how I "misrepresented" these words ??
<snipped>
JMO
Got my copy of the book back from loan this am and wanted to set the record straight. The exact line says "Quotation marks are used in the book for the purpose of readability, not necessarily to indicate that the words are EXACT".
Where I am from the words "accurate" and "exact" have two different meanings, so yes, it was a misrepresentation.
imo
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 01:32 PM
Got my copy of the book back from loan this am and wanted to set the record straight. The exact line says "Quotation marks are used in the book for the purpose of readability, not necessarily to indicate that the words are EXACT".
Where I am from the words "accurate" and "exact" have two different meanings, so yes, it was a misrepresentation.
imo
Thank you so much No Nic. I hope we can all accept that and move on.:hat:
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 02:11 PM
Nope.Do you have a link to an impartial and objective review? I haven't been able to find one by a respected reviewer. The reviews I have read are all over the place, I tend to trust those somewhere in the middle.
HiLife
10-18-2007, 02:12 PM
Does anyone know if during Beths Bible Belt lectures, tours and seminars if she mentions the missing children of Alabama? Are any children missing in Birmingham that are worthy of her tenacity? Or is she simply fixated on Aruba whose only missing tourist in its history (that I am aware of) is Natalee. I don't blame her for her struggle but I think she should also look to her own home town. I bet there are thousands of missing children, in her home town and if the police were on the ball, there would be less I'm sure. If Heyes thinks the Aruba police are out eating donuts, then maybe the Birmingham police are out drinking moonshine and should sober up.
When you can come up with a MISSING TOURIST in Alabama, then you would have an appropriate comparison. Until then.....
Yes, I bet the Natalee case is the only one you "are aware of." Aruban officials seemed to be enjoying a nice run, sweeping other cases, like Bud Larson, under the sand dunes...that is, until they met the Holloway family.
:patriot:
HiLife
10-18-2007, 02:14 PM
Got my copy of the book back from loan this am and wanted to set the record straight. The exact line says "Quotation marks are used in the book for the purpose of readability, not necessarily to indicate that the words are EXACT".
Where I am from the words "accurate" and "exact" have two different meanings, so yes, it was a misrepresentation.
imo
Good clear up, NN!
Sometimes the desire to bash a victim's mother overrides the ability to discern.
jmo
HiLife
10-18-2007, 02:17 PM
Haven't read it.
Published reviewers do not opine the book is "an Aruba bash", though.
An "Aruba bash" - lolololol!!!! What nonsense. It wasn't about Aruba, but about the people there who made a tragedy into an even worse nightmare - it was about a devastating experience and a mother's deep pain and abiding love and faith. Guess the message is lost on those who refuse to see.
It really amazes me the creativity involved when the objective is to twist and spin!
:read:
jmo
HiLife
10-18-2007, 02:21 PM
It's amazing that all Natalee's family, friends, investigators, news people, search people made it back alive! :chicken:
I would imagine that would be because none of the above got into a car with Joran and his pals. jmo
HiLife
10-18-2007, 02:23 PM
I think you've mentioned that you participated in some of the searches there in Aruba. I think it's wonderful that you donated your time and energy to do that, but I'm curious, because it is my understanding buses were loaded with people to search. What kind of information was coming in on the specific areas the people were taken to search, especially with no evidence of a crime. Do you know?
These are great questions, Suki. I'd love to hear the answers from ArubaSteve. What say you, Steve?
Bumping. jmo
HiLife
10-18-2007, 02:30 PM
Uh huh and if certain other parents had gotten their out of control teen some help before he ended up really hurting someone we wouldn't be discussing this at all.
IMO
Bottom line, Heyes, Bottom line.
124 (+ or -) and only ONE did not return. So it's the parent's fault for sending Natalee? It's not even logical! What a lame accusation.
The ONLY parents who should be blamed are the enabling Van der Sloots for creating the monster who is suspected of murdering Natalee.
jmo
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 02:30 PM
I would imagine that would be because none of the above got into a car with Joran and his pals. jmo
But some visited their houses.:chicken:
HiLife
10-18-2007, 02:36 PM
But some visited their houses.:chicken:
During the day, and with other people for support.
From all accounts, I believe the only danger then, was to be violently SWEAT upon. :chicken:
jmo
fairmaiden
10-18-2007, 02:53 PM
Got my copy of the book back from loan this am and wanted to set the record straight. The exact line says "Quotation marks are used in the book for the purpose of readability, not necessarily to indicate that the words are EXACT".
Where I am from the words "accurate" and "exact" have two different meanings, so yes, it was a misrepresentation.
imo
Well No Nic .... It honestly doesn't make much difference to me . When I look up "exact" in the dictionary .... the meaning is "precise". So .... if something is in the book, and it's not "exact" .... it's not precise .... therefore, I would say it was inaccurate. If something is not precise, or exact, I wouldn't say it was a "misrepresentation" to call it inaccurate .... especially if you're writing a book based on the "TRUTH".
Just My Opinion
JustMyOpinion
10-18-2007, 03:05 PM
Do you have a link to an impartial and objective review? I haven't been able to find one by a respected reviewer. The reviews I have read are all over the place, I tend to trust those somewhere in the middle.
I can't determine which reviewers you would find impartial and objective, is there a publication or newspaper you prefer? Here is a review from a Utah newspaper:
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,695216138,00.html
ortiga
10-18-2007, 03:14 PM
JUG TWITTY, NATALEE`S STEPFATHER: I would say the same thing. Beth and I have been married now five years, but we dated about eight years, moving from Mississippi.
GRACE: Didn`t want to rush into anything, eight year
http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0510/03/ng.01.html
Loving Natalee: Chapter 1:
"After I had been divorced from the children's father for about seven years, I met George "Jug" Twitty while he was on business in Mississippi. We dated for about three years before marrying in 2000. Matt and Natalee absolutely loved his two older children, Megan and George, and looked forward to moving to the lovely bedroom community of Mountain Brook in Birmingham, Alabama, to join their new family and start their new life."
So why would Beth want readers to think they dated only 3 years? What was going on during the other 5 years that Jug, at least, thought they WERE dating?
HiLife
10-18-2007, 03:24 PM
Just maybe you should know what was said before you call someone a liar. Do you have a link to Jug said 7 and Beth said 3? (I won't hold my breath waiting).
imo
Absolutely, NN.
Personally, Beth's personal life has nothing to do with how Joran is suspected of murdering Natalee. The fascination with Beth's life has turned into an ugly sport, of sorts. I find it a low form of conversation in the absence of any real news.
jmo
No Nic
10-18-2007, 03:36 PM
Well No Nic .... It honestly doesn't make much difference to me . When I look up "exact" in the dictionary .... the meaning is "precise". So .... if something is in the book, and it's not "exact" .... it's not precise .... therefore, I would say it was inaccurate. If something is not precise, or exact, I wouldn't say it was a "misrepresentation" to call it inaccurate .... especially if you're writing a book based on the "TRUTH".
Just My Opinion
I could have predicted this reply, WOW, I am almost dizzy reading it.
Are you actually saying if a quote isn't exact, then it is inaccurate?? According to you, since your quote of what Beth said in the book was not exact nor precise....you did misrepresent what was in the book....accept your own words !!
Simply because something is not quoted "exact" or verbatum does not mean it is not the truth. :rolleyes:
This mindset seems to only apply to Beth Holloway on these message boards. Boggles my mind the tremendous effort that is wasted in these attempts of total and constant negativity towards this person that none of you have ever or will ever meet.
I would bet my last dollar, if Beth had not put this disclaimer in the book, we would be hearing the OUTRAGE....."that is not what so-and-so said..she is lying again". It is obvious there is nothing she could ever do that would satisfy some of you.
I'm done with your spin,as Luke suggested....I have corrected what you misrepresented in the book and I am moving on.
imo
terrysdoor
10-18-2007, 03:51 PM
could someone tell me who is searching for Natalee?it seems to me noone.... but of course i could be wrong IMO
Grandad
10-18-2007, 03:55 PM
I can't determine which reviewers you would find impartial and objective, is there a publication or newspaper you prefer? Here is a review from a Utah newspaper:
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,695216138,00.html
The piece is more a synopsis of the book than a review, but the author does devote one line as a review. He says, "The book is not very well-written."
Didn't you bother to read the article before you posted the link?
Grandad
10-18-2007, 04:06 PM
could someone tell me who is searching for Natalee?it seems to me noone.... but of course i could be wrong IMO
Maybe T. J. Ward and Art Wood are. Their books aren't out yet.
fairmaiden
10-18-2007, 04:07 PM
could someone tell me who is searching for Natalee?it seems to me noone.... but of course i could be wrong IMO
Hi terry .... That's a good question. It seems "searching for Natalee" has long ago fallen by the wayside. I don't even know if Tim Miller is going back to Aruba. The last I heard, he was going in June, then July, then August, then September ............ I'm not sure, but I might have heard recently Jossy Mansur is going to search, although not him personally. I'm sure someone will correct me on this, but I THOUGHT I heard that.
JMO
JustMyOpinion
10-18-2007, 04:08 PM
The piece is more a synopsis of the book than a review, but the author does devote one line as a review. He says, "The book is not very well-written."
Didn't you bother to read the article before you posted the link?
I read it.
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,695216138,00.html
SNIP:Beth allows the reader to feel the terrible loss she experienced, and to be amazed at her energy and insight
JustMyOpinion
10-18-2007, 04:10 PM
Hi terry .... That's a good question. It seems "searching for Natalee" has long ago fallen by the wayside.
Why would Aruban authorities stop searching, IYO?
Heyes
10-18-2007, 04:16 PM
Ya gotta love the Joran pep squad, No Nic...LOL
I personally think that a statue of Joran should be erected there in Aruba, so that all the locals can pay their respects and thank him for all he's done for their country. Maybe they could make it out of 151 rum bottles, and condoms. I think it would look nice!
jmo
lol
Thanks for the visual lol lol
Heyes
10-18-2007, 04:20 PM
I don't understand why you feel the need to compare the speech of a Dutch boy living in Aruba speaking a second language to an American teacher/speech therapist answering a telephone. But it does make me grin.:hat:
so what was wrong with Beth saying whatcha got? I saw that this was picked out and used as a put down of some sort. Never understood why.
Of course I know that if she sneezes she's going to be picked apart on how loud or soft it was. lol lol
Heyes
10-18-2007, 04:21 PM
It's amazing that all Natalee's family, friends, investigators, news people, search people made it back alive! :chicken:
Everyone made it back alive except one and she was with joran.
Heyes
10-18-2007, 04:29 PM
Heyes .... It wasn't meant as a "lecture", and I apologize you took it that way. You haven't seen me "lecture" .... my kids could fill you in on that.
My point was .... I have seen you complain because Beth is discussed on the board so much .... ((personally, I don't see how that can be avoided)) .... but, in the remote possibility messageposters CAN have a discussion without the mention of Beth .... then perhaps the responsibility lies partially with you, who never FAILS to mention Beth.
JMO
I usually turn the subject around to joran and the crime I believe he committed with the help of his father and others.
The last few days my posts have been filled with "Beth" because I finished the book.
I'd be more than happy to discuss other things. But if you notice...... there are others that would prefer to discuss Beth, be it her looks, dates, who she is or was married to. But you know that.
Heyes
10-18-2007, 04:31 PM
It does, doesn't it Luke ?? Like I said .... I can't imagine why this Island was chosen as a vacation spot for 140 kids with NO chaperones ....
JMO
Well that's something that has stopped, so no more worries!
Aruba can thank their bumbling rude cops, joran, his father and the kalpoes.
IMO
Heyes
10-18-2007, 04:37 PM
Haven't read it.
Published reviewers do not opine the book is "an Aruba bash", though.
It's not JMO. Beth tell us of some of her experiences with local arubans and some of these people are wonderful. Supporting her, praying with her. lovely people. All she does is tell what she and her family and friends went through while searching for her daughter. The lies and run-arounds that the suspects and the so called officials put them through.
IMO
Grandad
10-18-2007, 04:39 PM
I read it.
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,695216138,00.html
SNIP:Beth allows the reader to feel the terrible loss she experienced, and to be amazed at her energy and insight
Quote:
"The book is not very well-written."
Heyes
10-18-2007, 04:39 PM
Does anyone know if during Beths Bible Belt lectures, tours and seminars if she mentions the missing children of Alabama? Are any children missing in Birmingham that are worthy of her tenacity? Or is she simply fixated on Aruba whose only missing tourist in its history (that I am aware of) is Natalee. I don't blame her for her struggle but I think she should also look to her own home town. I bet there are thousands of missing children, in her home town and if the police were on the ball, there would be less I'm sure. If Heyes thinks the Aruba police are out eating donuts, then maybe the Birmingham police are out drinking moonshine and should sober up.
Yes she talks about other missing people, how she met with the parents of other missing children.
You really need to read the book!
imo
Grandad
10-18-2007, 04:43 PM
Why would Aruban authorities stop searching, IYO?
Maybe after an investigation of two and a half years has turned up no evidence of a crime they've decided she just ran off to start a new life.
JustMyOpinion
10-18-2007, 05:00 PM
Maybe after an investigation of two and a half years has turned up no evidence of a crime they've decided she just ran off to start a new life.
Since authorities were able to get a court order in June to search the vds property and visit the kalpoe home, and the prosecutor has convinced the judge to extend the period of investigation, I disagree.
Authorities have evidence supporting reasonable suspicion that crimes were committed, IMO.
I have seen no evidence which supports a theory that Natalee ran away.
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 05:18 PM
I read it.
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,695216138,00.html
SNIP:Beth allows the reader to feel the terrible loss she experienced, and to be amazed at her energy and insight
Thank you for the link.
HiLife
10-18-2007, 05:19 PM
Quote:
"The book is not very well-written."
If that's the worst that can be said about it - ROFLMBO!
Doesn't say the book is "untruthful" or filled with "lies," now does it? Nope, because it is the TRUE story of what Beth and her family were put through by ALE and other Aruban officials.
jmo
JustMyOpinion
10-18-2007, 05:21 PM
Thank you for the link.
You're welcome, Luke.
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 05:26 PM
Why would Aruban authorities stop searching, IYO?
My guess would be the probability of success does not warrant the expense. It is more likely she would be found without a search than with one.
Several people have been found recently without a search who were missing for many years.
HiLife
10-18-2007, 05:27 PM
<snipped>
I'm done with your spin,as Luke suggested....I have corrected what you misrepresented in the book and I am moving on.
imo
WOW is right. My seatbelt sure got a workout, but you handled the challenge well! Thanks for taking the time to correct the constant misrepresentation!
jmo
HiLife
10-18-2007, 05:31 PM
Someone said, don't start an arguement with someone who buys ink by the barrel. In today's world it would be cameras. I would certainly be wary of two little ladies handing out prayer cards documented by a camera crew.
I really like that first saying, Luke, never heard it before. Your observation about cameras is so true nowadays. Clever.
jmo
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 06:04 PM
Beth visits my area then heads home.
http://www.harpercollins.com/Author/EventSearchResults.aspx?authorID=33337&authorName=Beth+Holloway
ortiga
10-18-2007, 06:07 PM
Thank you for the link.
That's not a review, the author doesn't even have the title correct. It's like a 4th grade book report where the student goes through the book and copies sentences from time to time.
Beth didn't even say that the experience ruined her second marriage to Natalee's stepfather. I think she went out of her way to state in the book and on at least one interview in colorado that the marriage was having troubles before. The main very cryptic or possibly freudian slip she makes in the book is by saying (quotes for readability) "Natalee was not completely to blame for the divorce"
That was no review. That was more like a routine publisher's blurb on the back cover.
IMO
BTW, when did she risk "her own life" while searching for Natalee? Handing out prayer cards was dangerous? "In frustration she even conducted a search of her own, risking her life in the process" Say what?
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,695216138,00.html
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 06:08 PM
I really like that first saying, Luke, never heard it before. Your observation about cameras is so true nowadays. Clever.
jmo
I think it was a local guy, Samuel Clements.:hat:
Maybe that's why Greta got a little nervous when they took her cameras.
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 06:12 PM
That's not a review, the author doesn't even have the title correct. It's like a 4th grade book report where the student goes through the book and copies sentences from time to time.
Beth didn't even say that the experience ruined her second marriage to Natalee's stepfather. I think she went out of her way to state in the book and on at least one interview in colorado that the marriage was having troubles before. The main very cryptic or possibly freudian slip she makes in the book is by saying (quotes for readability) "Natalee was not completely to blame for the divorce"
That was no review. That was more like a routine publisher's blurb on the back cover.
IMO
BTW, when did she risk "her own life" while searching for Natalee? Handing out prayer cards was dangerous? "In frustration she even conducted a search of her own, risking her life in the process" Say what?
http://deseretnews.com/article/1,5143,695216138,00.html
Reputable reviews are scarous.
ortiga
10-18-2007, 06:16 PM
WOW is right. My seatbelt sure got a workout, but you handled the challenge well! Thanks for taking the time to correct the constant misrepresentation!
jmo
There was NO, ZERO, ZIP, NINGUNO, NADA, misrepresentation by using the word accurate instead of exact. The use of quotes in a non fiction enterprise is to relate what someone said. Accurately AND exactly. Otherwise what is known as a paraphrase is used.
You do know that the "translations" of the book about Joran were summaries, don't you? They did not translate exactly because of copyright laws. At least on SCRUX that's what happened.
There is no misrepresentation in using the word "accurate" in place of "exact", and it is a misrepresentation to SAY that it was a misrepresentation.
ortiga
10-18-2007, 06:22 PM
Reputable reviews are scarous.
Only a person who knows the background of the case can accurately or fairly review the book. Only a person who knows what went on on TV with Twitty can ask "HEY where's the part you claimed on TV"!!!!! So it's not just possible misrepresentations she makes (ie drops 5 years off her courtship with Jug) but it's also the omissions.
Otherwise you can see a bland support of the mother, based on the claims of "risking her own life by searching" (quotes for readability). And so forth. No one wants to have a child go missing, even when the "child" is an adult. No one. For this reason, (there but for the grace of God go I), sympathy oozes towards a person in that position. How that person handles adversity is the real story, and she blew it big time.
IMO
A review very fair is on Amazon, and is by J. Brennan, an observer in this case from practically day one, and a long time reviewer of books for Amazon. Not just someone who dropped in to badmouth or support the mother's literary endeavor. IMO
No Nic
10-18-2007, 07:14 PM
Only a person who knows the background of the case can accurately or fairly review the book. Only a person who knows what went on on TV with Twitty can ask "HEY where's the part you claimed on TV"!!!!! So it's not just possible misrepresentations she makes (ie drops 5 years off her courtship with Jug) but it's also the omissions.
Otherwise you can see a bland support of the mother, based on the claims of "risking her own life by searching" (quotes for readability). And so forth. No one wants to have a child go missing, even when the "child" is an adult. No one. For this reason, (there but for the grace of God go I), sympathy oozes towards a person in that position. How that person handles adversity is the real story, and she blew it big time. IMO
A review very fair is on Amazon, and is by J. Brennan, an observer in this case from practically day one, and a long time reviewer of books for Amazon. Not just someone who dropped in to badmouth or support the mother's literary endeavor. IMO
Only to a few people on a couple message boards.
imo
The name from the "fair" review seems very familiar to me. If it is who I think it is (a self-proclaimed "close" personal friend of the VDS's, lol) who posts at RU and at one time the now defunct FOB? Hardly impartial. lol
imo
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 07:19 PM
Only a person who knows the background of the case can accurately or fairly review the book. Only a person who knows what went on on TV with Twitty can ask "HEY where's the part you claimed on TV"!!!!! So it's not just possible misrepresentations she makes (ie drops 5 years off her courtship with Jug) but it's also the omissions.
Otherwise you can see a bland support of the mother, based on the claims of "risking her own life by searching" (quotes for readability). And so forth. No one wants to have a child go missing, even when the "child" is an adult. No one. For this reason, (there but for the grace of God go I), sympathy oozes towards a person in that position. How that person handles adversity is the real story, and she blew it big time.
IMO
A review very fair is on Amazon, and is by J. Brennan, an observer in this case from practically day one, and a long time reviewer of books for Amazon. Not just someone who dropped in to badmouth or support the mother's literary endeavor. IMO
I thought the review by Roger of RU was well written. I do think someone could review the book without knowing about the case. Just from a stand point of being well written, compelling and a page turner without any thought to veracity.
As I said before, I think everyone got what they expected.
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 08:08 PM
If she had a heart attack, where is her body? Why has it disappeared? Why would those who transported her lie to police and falsely implicate innocent men, allow them to be accused of murder and imprisoned, IYO? Why are they still lying, IYO?
Of course, your questions call for speculation but it isn't difficult to come up with a theory that fits the evidence.
The body could be so many place, pet cemetery, buried, incinerated, dumped in ocean, landfill, to name a few. I still favor the idea of dumping the body in a food bin and feeding it to the sharks on the east side of the island.
If Natalee became very sick she could have been dumped at a crack house. Those dumping her really wouldn't know her fate. I have often thought that no one knows the whole story. Long ago I commented on a local case where two men raped a woman and threw her out of a car. Two men found her raped her and slit her throat. She lived. Had she died who could have figured this one out.
The same goes for Natalee. There could be much more and many more suspects. Without a body, it is very dificult. I think the secret recording of the conversation in the car was very telling.
So...I don't know they are still lying, they just might not know what happened.
All speculation of course.
Luke Davis
10-18-2007, 09:57 PM
Thursday, June 16, 2005
VAN SUSTEREN: Do you think that she's still alive?
HOLLOWAY: I believe that Natalee is still alive until God tells me otherwise because all I know right now is, the last time I saw my daughter, my daughter is alive, and I know she is here. And until God tells me otherwise, Greta, absolutely. I have all the hope and faith and belief that my daughter is alive.
fairmaiden
10-19-2007, 08:54 AM
I thought the review by Roger of RU was well written. I do think someone could review the book without knowing about the case. Just from a stand point of being well written, compelling and a page turner without any thought to veracity.
As I said before, I think everyone got what they expected.
Good Morning, Luke .... :seeya:
I would agree with you .... someone COULD review the book if they were NOT concerned with veracity, just from the standpoints you raised. However, in a book which is non-fiction, veracity HAS to be taken into consideration.
No Nic thinks there is a difference in meaning between the words "accurate" and "exact". I happen to disagree with her. I have no CLUE what Beth had written in her journal. I have no idea as to the TRUTH of it at all. From what I understand, and I stand to be corrected, Beth's journal was referenced for this book. She relied on the notes in her journal. There could be omissions, additions, exaggerations in the book OR in her journal.
She could be quoting someone, for example, and if one refers to her disclaimer, one is left to wonder if it's EXACTLY what someone said !!
Just My Opinion
JustMyOpinion
10-19-2007, 09:07 AM
She could be quoting someone, for example, and if one refers to her disclaimer, one is left to wonder if it's EXACTLY what someone said !!
Just My Opinion
IMO, What Beth discloses is what Beth heard.
If a person has previously decided Beth is not credible, they aren't likely to believe her book is a credible source for factual information, IMO.
fairmaiden
10-19-2007, 09:34 AM
IMO, What Beth discloses is what Beth heard.
If a person has previously decided Beth is not credible, they aren't likely to believe her book is a credible source for factual information, IMO.
I agree with you. However, IIRC, I believe it is said Beth has also relied on her memory to write some of this book. Is her memory reliable ?? I know I sometimes question my own .... lol.
JMO
JustMyOpinion
10-19-2007, 10:24 AM
I agree with you. However, IIRC, I believe it is said Beth has also relied on her memory to write some of this book. Is her memory reliable ?? I know I sometimes question my own .... lol.
JMO
It seems apparent to me you don't find Beth credible, and you don't want to read the book. I think readers will form their own opinion of Beth and her story, and whether or not she is a reliable witness to the events she describes, JMO.
Luke Davis
10-19-2007, 10:56 AM
I agree with you. However, IIRC, I believe it is said Beth has also relied on her memory to write some of this book. Is her memory reliable ?? I know I sometimes question my own .... lol.
JMOGood morning fairmaiden.:See ya:
Beth had to be under tremendous stress and that can cause havoc with memory. I don't question her solid facts but I do doubt her when she attributes feelings to others. It made a huge impression on me when she stated some facts, then said it was a mother's gut feeling. To me, a gut feeling and facts are not the same. It's the same with "truth". It's her truth.
Heyes
10-19-2007, 11:02 AM
Only to a few people on a couple message boards.
imo
The name from the "fair" review seems very familiar to me. If it is who I think it is (a self-proclaimed "close" personal friend of the VDS's, lol) who posts at RU and at one time the now defunct FOB? Hardly impartial. lol
imo
Not surprising at all. what was it Greta said? Oh yeah, most of the negative things said about Beth seems to be coming from aruba. lmao
That's why I don't take much of it seriously. In fact the more we here about what went on in aruba the lamer their defense becomes. Too funny!
I hope they tell the vandersloots we said HI.:patriot:
I can only think of three people that really, really hate Beth right now. lol I'm sure they still must have a couple of friends left that supports their nonsense.
Then again maybe not. Is paulus still watching over his son in holland or is he back with his wife of convenience in aruba? That was why they got married, right?
IMO
IMO
Luke Davis
10-19-2007, 11:10 AM
It seems apparent to me you don't find Beth credible, and you don't want to read the book. I think readers will form their own opinion of Beth and her story, and whether or not she is a reliable witness to the events she describes, JMO.
Everyone will come away from reading Beth's book with what they started with...faith. From what I have read, good and bad, my interest in the book isn't raised.
The questions remain and Beth's truth isn't anymore seductive than Dave's claims of corruption.
JustMyOpinion
10-19-2007, 11:59 AM
Everyone will come away from reading Beth's book with what they started with...faith. .
I disagree. Some people who read the book might practice a faith belief, some may not. "everyone" is not the same. Readers are unique individuals, with their own life experiences, their own intellect, belief systems, personalities, etc. JMO
JustMyOpinion
10-19-2007, 12:45 PM
The questions remain and Beth's truth isn't anymore seductive than Dave's claims of corruption.
I have remaining questions. I wouldn't expect Dave or Beth to answer MY questions in books about their own experiences. Beth is not seductive, IMO.
In my own opinion, the investigation was corrupted from the outset. The security guards were treated differently than J2K, this was wrong, IMO. Chief van der Straaten had a friendship with Paulus van der Sloot, I think he needed to step aside from the outset, IMO. From what I have read, a Judge ( DeWitt) and public prosecutor ( Ben King) were in Deputy Judge Paulus van der Sloot's home when the polis and chief prosecutor executed a search,and the search was limited, this was wrong, IMO. I agree with Parliamentarian Rudy Lampe, an investigation of the investigation needs to take place so the people of Aruba can learn the truth, JMO.
fairmaiden
10-19-2007, 01:02 PM
Everyone will come away from reading Beth's book with what they started with...faith. From what I have read, good and bad, my interest in the book isn't raised.
The questions remain and Beth's truth isn't anymore seductive than Dave's claims of corruption.
Luke .... You are exactly right !! You were right in your last post too, I believe it was .... if someone is under stress, it plays havoc with their memory. I thought I had read somewhere that Beth relied on her memory when writing this book .... as well as her journal.
JMO
No Nic
10-19-2007, 01:07 PM
I have remaining questions. I wouldn't expect Dave or Beth to answer MY questions in books about their own experiences. Beth is not seductive, IMO.
In my own opinion, the investigation was corrupted from the outset. The security guards were treated differently than J2K, this was wrong, IMO. Chief van der Straaten had a friendship with Paulus van der Sloot, I think he needed to step aside from the outset, IMO. From what I have read, a Judge ( DeWitt) and public prosecutor ( Ben King) were in Deputy Judge Paulus van der Sloot's home when the polis and chief prosecutor executed a search,and the search was limited, this was wrong, IMO. I agree with Parliamentarian Rudy Lampe, an investigation of the investigation needs to take place so the people of Aruba can learn the truth, JMO.
Well said !! That is exactly the way it was in this investigation and to say otherwise is pure BS, imo. An investigation into the investigation.... WOW....wouldn't that open a few more eyes. Sadly, I doubt it will ever happen. I pity the next victim of Aruba, no doubt in my mind it will happen again.
imo
JustMyOpinion
10-19-2007, 01:25 PM
An investigation into the investigation.... WOW....wouldn't that open a few more eyes. Sadly, I doubt it will ever happen. I pity the next victim of Aruba, no doubt in my mind it will happen again.
imo
Rudy Lampe is not in the majority in Parliament, and as long as the MEP party is in power, I doubt the investigation will be examined. ( seems clear to me from reading local press that MEP Minister of Justice Rudy Croes is at odds with some officials in the Kingdom, and wasn't supportive of the KLPD investigation) JMO. I pity the next victim as well, Aruba has done nothing visible and meaningful to reduce sexual assault crimes on the Island or to address the drug activity in and around Carlos N Charlies, IMO. The Island game continues, the players have not been stopped, IMO. I personally believe a free Joran van der Sloot represents a future danger to society, and fear he will commit crimes in the future, JMO. I think he's likely a psychopath, JMO
Luke Davis
10-19-2007, 01:42 PM
Beth is in my area and was just on the local radio. Nothing new but a very powerful hour with Ronn Owens.
http://www.kgoam810.com/article.asp?id=453301
Heyes
10-19-2007, 02:00 PM
Rudy Lampe is not in the majority in Parliament, and as long as the MEP party is in power, I doubt the investigation will be examined. ( seems clear to me from reading local press that MEP Minister of Justice Rudy Croes is at odds with some officials in the Kingdom, and wasn't supportive of the KLPD investigation) JMO. I pity the next victim as well, Aruba has done nothing visible and meaningful to reduce sexual assault crimes on the Island or to address the drug activity in and around Carlos N Charlies, IMO. The Island game continues, the players have not been stopped, IMO. I personally believe a free Joran van der Sloot represents a future danger to society, and fear he will commit crimes in the future, JMO. I think he's likely a psychopath, JMO
That's the thing, joran has gotten away with this, his demeaner when we see him is arrogant and defiant. He will only get bolder and more brazen. With this one under his belt he probably feels that he is untouchable. What he might do next is worrisome, to say the least. I wish he had to stay on aruba. It really is the only place that deserves him.
I am curious as to why it's been reported that paulus has been staying with him in Holland. Is it to keep an eye on their out of control teen or is it because he's felt unwelcome on aruba?
IMO
IMO
No Nic
10-19-2007, 02:16 PM
That's the thing, joran has gotten away with this, his demeaner when we see him is arrogant and defiant. He will only get bolder and more brazen. With this one under his belt he probably feels that he is untouchable. What he might do next is worrisome, to say the least. I wish he had to stay on aruba. It really is the only place that deserves him.
I am curious as to why it's been reported that paulus has been staying with him in Holland. Is it to keep an eye on their out of control teen or is it because he's felt unwelcome on aruba?
IMO
IMO
Paulus is staying with Joran in Holland? Maybe there is "a little discord" in the Anita/Paulus relationship? Possible, imo. A union that produced the likes of Joran must be challenging to say the least, also imo.
imo
Heyes
10-19-2007, 02:33 PM
Paulus is staying with Joran in Aruba ? Maybe there is "a little discord" in the Anita/Paulus relationship? Possible, imo. A union that produced the likes of Joran must be challenging to say the least, also imo.
imo
In Holland. At least that's the last I read.
Well when you get married merely for convenience I would imagine that could be true.
They seem to travel seperately alot.
imo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 02:38 PM
That's the thing, joran has gotten away with this, his demeaner when we see him is arrogant and defiant. He will only get bolder and more brazen. With this one under his belt he probably feels that he is untouchable. What he might do next is worrisome, to say the least. I wish he had to stay on aruba. It really is the only place that deserves him.
I am curious as to why it's been reported that paulus has been staying with him in Holland. Is it to keep an eye on their out of control teen or is it because he's felt unwelcome on aruba?
IMO
IMO
I, too, believe we should be afraid of Joran's next act. Kind of like OJ Redux. They get bolder and bolder. Dangerous.
Interesting........Paulus and Joran are fraternity bros now? Party on, Dude! I would love to know the real reason, too!
You could be right about Paulus needing to escape - that smackdown by his big boss Mr. Jorj must have been humiliating and clearly showed the VDS' exactly how their peers are viewing them.
JMO
No Nic
10-19-2007, 02:46 PM
In Holland. At least that's the last I read.
Well when you get married merely for convenience I would imagine that could be true.
They seem to travel seperately alot.
imo
I know you said Holland and I typed Aruba (you quoted before I could edit).
If this "rumor" were pertaining to Beth, Dave or any of Natalee's family, it would already be stated as fact that they are separated, getting divorced.
imo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 04:13 PM
I know you said Holland and I typed Aruba (you quoted before I could edit).
If this "rumor" were pertaining to Beth, Dave or any of Natalee's family, it would already be stated as fact that they are separated, getting divorced.
imo
"Another one bites the dust..." So many casualties/consequences from one sociopath's behavior.
Yes, remember all that was said about Beth and Jug? I wonder, if like Beth and Jug, if the VDS were having problems? Were the womanizing rumors true about Paulus?
Just goes to show that no one should get "pleasure" out of someone else's suffering.
JMO
Luke Davis
10-19-2007, 04:18 PM
[edit for clarity]
Just goes to show that no one should get "pleasure" out of someone else's suffering.
JMOThat would be the end of jokes. :hat:
Heyes
10-19-2007, 04:56 PM
I know you said Holland and I typed Aruba (you quoted before I could edit).
If this "rumor" were pertaining to Beth, Dave or any of Natalee's family, it would already be stated as fact that they are separated, getting divorced.
imo
LOL I knew that!
Oh the vandersloots have their problems, I think that this is only the beginnning.
Grandad
10-19-2007, 05:02 PM
Paulus is staying with Joran in Holland? Maybe there is "a little discord" in the Anita/Paulus relationship? Possible, imo. A union that produced the likes of Joran must be challenging to say the least, also imo.
imo
Seems to be more than "a little discord" between Beth and Jug.
Unfortunately it appears they weren't up to the task of preparing an 18 year old girl for adulthood, but sent her on an all you can drink junket she obviously wasn't ready for.
Luke Davis
10-19-2007, 05:03 PM
The public is invited to a presentation at the church by author Beth Holloway at 7 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 8. Holloway will be speaking about her faith and hope. She suffered the kidnapping and disappearance of her daughter, Natalee, in Aruba, in the summer of 2005 during a class trip. Beth Holloway of Alabama has written a book titled “Loving Natalee.”
http://www.petoskeynews.com/articles/2007/10/19/religion/religion.txt
Luke Davis
10-19-2007, 05:05 PM
Seems to be more than "a little discord" between Beth and Jug.
Unfortunately it appears they weren't up to the task of preparing an 18 year old girl for adulthood, but sent her on an all you can drink junket she obviously wasn't ready for.
It has been reported she was the most naive of her group.
Heyes
10-19-2007, 05:07 PM
I think that beth is likely a narcissist with bi-polar tendencies and that she has fabricated entire stories. But then, anybody can claim to be a psychiatrist on the internet.
imo
I guess that means the ale, the FBI and the dutch investigators, not to mention the hundreds of reporters and TH that followed this case also are suffering the same signs and symptoms?
Wow! So everyone is nuts but the vandersloots a handful of supporters and a a couple of aruban officials that are buddies with joran's dad. Interesting.
Oh wait, I forgot, it's SuperBETH, able to lock up innocent sporters and brainwash the entire world! lol lol
lol Okie dokie then.
Grandad
10-19-2007, 05:11 PM
<snip>
You could be right about Paulus needing to escape - that smackdown by his big boss Mr. Jorj
<snip>JMO
Do you have a link showing Jorj is Paulus's boss?
I thought Jorj worked for a government department, and Paulus is an attorney at a private law firm.
Heyes
10-19-2007, 05:20 PM
I, too, believe we should be afraid of Joran's next act. Kind of like OJ Redux. They get bolder and bolder. Dangerous.
Interesting........Paulus and Joran are fraternity bros now? Party on, Dude! I would love to know the real reason, too!
You could be right about Paulus needing to escape - that smackdown by his big boss Mr. Jorj must have been humiliating and clearly showed the VDS' exactly how their peers are viewing them.
JMO
I imagine that's why paulus chooses Holland. IMO that had to of been humiliating to get called out right in front of his peers and on the record.
No money for you vandersloot!
Unbelievable, I guess that's all the power those men had in this and that's what they used.
poor paulus. couldn't happend to a nicer enabler.
IMO
ortiga
10-19-2007, 05:26 PM
In Holland. At least that's the last I read.
Well when you get married merely for convenience I would imagine that could be true.
They seem to travel seperately alot.
imo
I thought that Beth said in the book that she and Jug always took separate vacacions. He with his friends and family, she with hers. that was sad, and probably deeply affected Natalee.
IMO
No Nic
10-19-2007, 05:27 PM
Seems to be more than "a little discord" between Beth and Jug.
Unfortunately it appears they weren't up to the task of preparing an 18 year old girl for adulthood, but sent her on an all you can drink junket she obviously wasn't ready for.
Unfortunately, Anita and Paulus weren't up to the task of preparing their son to be a law abiding citizen/decent human being. Hmmm.......which would I prefer? IMO, the answer is obvious.
imo
ortiga
10-19-2007, 05:29 PM
The public is invited to a presentation at the church by author Beth Holloway at 7 p.m. Thursday, Nov. 8. Holloway will be speaking about her faith and hope. She suffered the kidnapping and disappearance of her daughter, Natalee, in Aruba, in the summer of 2005 during a class trip. Beth Holloway of Alabama has written a book titled “Loving Natalee.”
http://www.petoskeynews.com/articles/2007/10/19/religion/religion.txt
Da Li’l Oom-Pah Band ? Is that with accordions?
I wonder when the kidnapping was. And if she'll tell the truth about it. That would be a change.
IMO
ortiga
10-19-2007, 05:32 PM
It has been reported she was the most naive of her group.
that was good of her friends and family to care for their naive friend and daughter.
ortiga
10-19-2007, 05:33 PM
Seems to be more than "a little discord" between Beth and Jug.
Unfortunately it appears they weren't up to the task of preparing an 18 year old girl for adulthood, but sent her on an all you can drink junket she obviously wasn't ready for.
Beth just didn't have Natalee long enough. No time.
ortiga
10-19-2007, 05:35 PM
snipped Were the womanizing rumors true about Paulus?
snipped
JMO
Were the carousing rumors about Beth true?
IMO
ortiga
10-19-2007, 05:37 PM
LOL I knew that!
Oh the vandersloots have their problems, I think that this is only the beginnning.
Do you think Beth will marry for a third time? Why do you think she said in the book she only dated Jug for 3 years, when Jug, on NG, said 8? Why did she lop off those 5 years?
ortiga
10-19-2007, 05:42 PM
I know you said Holland and I typed Aruba (you quoted before I could edit).
If this "rumor" were pertaining to Beth, Dave or any of Natalee's family, it would already be stated as fact that they are separated, getting divorced.
imo
Please state the source of your rumor. Among Beth and Dave and their spouses there have already been a passle of divorces. Let's see, Beth: 2 divorces; Dave 1 divorce: Jug 2 divorces; Robin, dont know how many. Yet the VDS have a unique marriage compared to those Americans.....Still married after all this years, to each other.
Please link to the source of the rumors you are posting about the VDS. TIA
HiLife
10-19-2007, 05:49 PM
I imagine that's why paulus chooses Holland. IMO that had to of been humiliating to get called out right in front of his peers and on the record.
No money for you vandersloot!
Unbelievable, I guess that's all the power those men had in this and that's what they used.
poor paulus. couldn't happend to a nicer enabler.
IMO
Oh yeah, I forgot about the court denying Paulus' extortion money bid from the poor Aruban tax payers. What a worthless example he set before his children. I wonder how having a daddy with no spine and questionable morals affected Joran's upbringing? We've seen the end result.
jmo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 06:04 PM
<snipped>
IMO
Carousing = Joran.
JMO
Heyes
10-19-2007, 06:08 PM
Please state the source of your rumor. Among Beth and Dave and their spouses there have already been a passle of divorces. Let's see, Beth: 2 divorces; Dave 1 divorce: Jug 2 divorces; Robin, dont know how many. Yet the VDS have a unique marriage compared to those Americans.....Still married after all this years, to each other.
Please link to the source of the rumors you are posting about the VDS. TIA
"Unique"????????
lol lol lol
uniquely convenient! lol
As long as she doesn't mind mopping up behind him, I say to each his own. lol lol
Of course this little problem of his may have started about the time joran misplaced an American citizen.
imo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 06:12 PM
"Unique"????????
lol lol lol
uniquely convenient! lol
As long as she doesn't mind mopping up behind him, I say to each his own. lol lol
Of course this little problem of his may have started about the time joran misplaced an American citizen.
imo
"Unique" = When one marries to obtain a visa.
You're right: lololol! How "special." :biggrin:
jmo
No Nic
10-19-2007, 06:21 PM
Please state the source of your rumor. Among Beth and Dave and their spouses there have already been a passle of divorces. Let's see, Beth: 2 divorces; Dave 1 divorce: Jug 2 divorces; Robin, dont know how many. Yet the VDS have a unique marriage compared to those Americans.....Still married after all this years, to each other.
Please link to the source of the rumors you are posting about the VDS. TIA
Source of a "rumor"? ROTFLMAO I don't see your side posting sources for what you state as fact.
Someone said they heard Paulus was staying with Joran in Holland. As is typical here concerning Beth, we can all speculate why he is not at home with his wife, enjoying that "unique" marriage.
imo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 06:27 PM
Source of a "rumor"? ROTFLMAO I don't see your side posting sources for what you state as fact.
Someone said they heard Paulus was staying with Joran in Holland. As is typical here concerning Beth, we can all speculate why he is not at home with his wife, enjoying that "unique" marriage.
imo
Remember how a while back, Paulus was interviewed in a vacation cabin in Montana, while Anita was in Holland nursing poor, widdle Joran back to health? How about when Anita was in Holland while Joran was committing his suspected crimes? Now, it is rumored Paulus is with Joran in Holland. Sounds like "separate vacations" also apply to the Van der Sloots.
jmo
Luke Davis
10-19-2007, 06:31 PM
Rudy Lampe is not in the majority in Parliament, and as long as the MEP party is in power, I doubt the investigation will be examined. ( seems clear to me from reading local press that MEP Minister of Justice Rudy Croes is at odds with some officials in the Kingdom, and wasn't supportive of the KLPD investigation) JMO. I pity the next victim as well, Aruba has done nothing visible and meaningful to reduce sexual assault crimes on the Island or to address the drug activity in and around Carlos N Charlies, IMO. The Island game continues, the players have not been stopped, IMO. I personally believe a free Joran van der Sloot represents a future danger to society, and fear he will commit crimes in the future, JMO. I think he's likely a psychopath, JMO
Why would the Arubans want to eliminate the attractions for American tourists?
Grandad
10-19-2007, 06:38 PM
<snip> How about when Anita was in Holland while Joran was committing his suspected crimes?
<snip>jmo
How does one commit a "suspected" crime?
Do you mean Joran did something that wasn't a crime?
No Nic
10-19-2007, 06:39 PM
Remember how a while back, Paulus was interviewed in a vacation cabin in Montana, while Anita was in Holland nursing poor, widdle Joran back to health? How about when Anita was in Holland while Joran was committing his suspected crimes? Now, it is rumored Paulus is with Joran in Holland. Sounds like "separate vacations" also apply to the Van der Sloots.
jmo
IMO, they should take turns "staying with Joran" wherever he is. Maybe if they watch him closer than they did in Aruba, they will save another young woman from disappearing. Oh...Wait...that would have to be Anita's job...it would never have happened to Natalee if Anita had been home...per Joran. :rolleyes:
imo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 06:48 PM
IMO, they should take turns "staying with Joran" wherever he is. Maybe if they watch him closer than they did in Aruba, they will save another young woman from disappearing. Oh...Wait...that would have to be Anita's job...it would never have happened to Natalee if Anita had been home...per Joran. :rolleyes:
imo
Appears they learned their lesson too late to help Natalee. :(
jmo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 07:02 PM
Source of a "rumor"? ROTFLMAO I don't see your side posting sources for what you state as fact.
Someone said they heard Paulus was staying with Joran in Holland. As is typical here concerning Beth, we can all speculate why he is not at home with his wife, enjoying that "unique" marriage.
imo
Here is proof they do not provide "sources" for their rumors:
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Post #663 9-30-2007
ortiga
Super Member Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 2,664
On another board there is a rumor that Anita wanted the dialogue in the meeting to be uncut and unedited, but did agree to the cameras, but Beth would not agree to the non-edited clause. Sure it's a rumor, but I believe it because that was Joran's agreement with Greta too, and it makes sense that his mom would demand the same, expeshally after what Beth did to the family for so many months, and for what both Beth and Dave did to the family after they graciously spoke off camera with them.
Beth does not want to be in any situation where she can't cut, parse, exaggerate, and lie as much as she wants to. She wants to make fun of Anita and her family again, and can't do it with an unedited transcript. IMO
IMO
No Nic
10-19-2007, 07:04 PM
I see no "source" for this rumor you posted: Post #663
ortiga
Super Member Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 2,664
On another board there is a rumor that Anita wanted the dialogue in the meeting to be uncut and unedited, but did agree to the cameras, but Beth would not agree to the non-edited clause. Sure it's a rumor, but I believe it because that was Joran's agreement with Greta too, and it makes sense that his mom would demand the same, expeshally after what Beth did to the family for so many months, and for what both Beth and Dave did to the family after they graciously spoke off camera with them.
Beth does not want to be in any situation where she can't cut, parse, exaggerate, and lie as much as she wants to. She wants to make fun of Anita and her family again, and can't do it with an unedited transcript. IMO
IMO
I guess it is fair to say about Anita & Paulus "Sure it's a rumor, but I believe it because "..........(pick a reason, any reason, all are acceptable).
imo
ortiga
10-19-2007, 07:53 PM
I guess it is fair to say about Anita & Paulus "Sure it's a rumor, but I believe it because "..........(pick a reason, any reason, all are acceptable).
imo
Do you know why Beth cut 5 years off her courtship with Jug? What is she hiding? Was she ashamed of having to wait 8 years to get married, so that she wanted to make it seem better by saying they dated just 3 years?
When did Jug get his divorce? Were beth and jug dating while either of them were married to someone else?
why else would she lie about such a thing:::::::?
Grandad
10-19-2007, 08:04 PM
Here is proof they do not provide "sources" for their rumors:
<snip>
IMO
Still waiting for proof "Jorj" is Paulus's boss.
No Nic
10-19-2007, 08:50 PM
Do you know why Beth cut 5 years off her courtship with Jug? What is she hiding? Was she ashamed of having to wait 8 years to get married, so that she wanted to make it seem better by saying they dated just 3 years?
When did Jug get his divorce? Were beth and jug dating while either of them were married to someone else?
why else would she lie about such a thing:::::::?
Do you know why Paulus is staying with Joran in Holland? Did Anita finally wise up and kick him out? Was the backyard apt too close to move Paulus? Is she tired of his fooling around? Is she tired of wiping up the sweat? Does she blame him for Joran being uncontrollable and a despicable human being, like father like son?
HiLife
10-19-2007, 09:09 PM
Do you know why Paulus is staying with Joran in Holland? Did Anita finally wise up and kick him out? Was the backyard apt too close to move Paulus? Is she tired of his fooling around? Is she tired of wiping up the sweat? Does she blame him for Joran being uncontrollable and a despicable human being, like father like son?
"wiping up the sweat" - LOLOLOL!!! More like mopping!
Can't wait to see what the real reason is for Paulus being in Holland. Maybe he's looking for a job?
Now that I think about it, I wonder why Paulus and Anita chose to move to Aruba and to be away from their families? Wasn't it mentioned the VDS' were all alone on Aruba? Isn't Grandma in Holland? Why the isolation? Were they running from something? I heard once, IIRC, that Paulus' brother was some kind of high official in Holland. Wonder if the brother is more successful? Wonder how embarassed Paulus must be, now that Joran has ruined the rest of the innocent extended family's name?
jmo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 09:15 PM
Still waiting for proof "Jorj" is Paulus's boss.
I'm not the one asking for proof of anything. I'm simply providing the reason why people shouldn't throw stones.
Mr. Jorj is the head of the Department of Justice. Paulus was a judge-in-training. So, technically, Jorg would be his "boss." If you can prove he is not, then I stand corrected. No prob.
Anyway, it doesn't even matter WHAT Jorj is to Paulus......he still gave him a public, humiliating, well-deserved smackdown.
jmo
No Nic
10-19-2007, 10:01 PM
"wiping up the sweat" - LOLOLOL!!! More like mopping!
Can't wait to see what the real reason is for Paulus being in Holland. Maybe he's looking for a job?
Now that I think about it, I wonder why Paulus and Anita chose to move to Aruba and to be away from their families? Wasn't it mentioned the VDS' were all alone on Aruba? Isn't Grandma in Holland? Why the isolation? Were they running from something? I heard once, IIRC, that Paulus' brother was some kind of high official in Holland. Wonder if the brother is more successful? Wonder how embarassed Paulus must be, now that Joran has ruined the rest of the innocent extended family's name?
jmo
Since we don't reside in the same country as the VDSs and the media here is not interested in the parents of the prime suspect, most of their skeletons will probably stay in their closets. Until Joran strikes again, that is, then it could become a free for all.
I doubt any of Paulus or Anita's extended family are proud of their "sporter".
imo
Luke Davis
10-19-2007, 10:10 PM
Since we don\\\'t reside in the same country as the VDSs and the media here is not interested in the parents of the prime suspect, most of their skeletons will probably stay in their closets. Until Joran strikes again, that is, then it could become a free for all.
I doubt any of Paulus or Anita\\\'s extended family are proud of their \\\"sporter\\\".
imo
Just think if Beth had time...maybe Anita would have spilled her guts. But sorry, Beth was too busy looking for police.
Anita probably just wanted Beth to sign her book.:hat:
Grandad
10-19-2007, 10:14 PM
I'm not the one asking for proof of anything. I'm simply providing the reason why people shouldn't throw stones.
Mr. Jorj is the head of the Department of Justice. Paulus was a judge-in-training. So, technically, Jorg would be his "boss." If you can prove he is not, then I stand corrected. No prob.
Anyway, it doesn't even matter WHAT Jorj is to Paulus......he still gave him a public, humiliating, well-deserved smackdown.
jmo
When what you exaggerate to be a "public smackdown" took place Paulus was in private practice as an attorney.
"Jorj" was not then, and had never been, Paulus's boss.
What you take glee in misrepresenting as a "public smackdown" was nothing more than an opinion, and I don't believe a translated transcript was ever published, so we don't really know what was actually said.
HiLife
10-19-2007, 10:22 PM
When what you exaggerate to be a "public smackdown" took place Paulus was in private practice as an attorney.
"Jorj" was not then, and had never been, Paulus's boss.
What you take glee in misrepresenting as a "public smackdown" was nothing more than an opinion, and I don't believe a translated transcript was ever published, so we don't really know what was actually said.
LOL - no exaggeration at all. It was public. It was embarassing. Paulus was said to have changed color from embarassment. And yes, there was a transcript. It was posted various times here. Feel free to Google.
Like I said, matters not if Mr. Jorj was Paulus' boss or not. Splitting hairs on this is unecessary. He publicly stated he did not feel Paulus and Joran had told the entire truth (paraphrased). Pretty embarassing , if you ask me!
jmo
HiLife
10-19-2007, 10:35 PM
Posted 3-20-07 on Natalee Holloway Discussion (part 2)
http://www.cspnv.com/archivo/pdf/March/15/A-15-3-07.pdf
Translated by Arubagirl (an avid Aruba/VDS supporter):
Oranjestad - Something unusual happened Tuesday morning during the swearing-in ceremony of the three Scribes to the Court who are Maikel Oduber, Navio Valdez and Edwin de Weever and the three lawyers mr. Foy, mr. Vis and mr. Bryson.
What happened is that Advocate General mr. Jorg, in front of all the lawyers present, among them mr. Van Der Sloot as well, decided to question the statement of Mr. Van Der Sloot that was published in Amigoe. The reaction of Mr. Jorg was a surprise to all thouse present and especially to mr. Van Der Sloot himself.
Bon Dia Aruba was present when mr. Jorg was to give a speech related to the lawyers that had been sworn in. At a certain moment the speech changed to the subject about the relationship between advocacy and the Department of Justice.
Mr. Jorg expressed himself in a very diplomatic way, but to everybody present it was very clear that he was referring to mr. Van Der Sloot. He questioned the fact that Mr. Van Der Sloot went to look for publicity by giving a statement to Amigoe and make certain statements that mr. Jorg never experienced. He refers here to the fact that lawyers and prosecutors publicly refer to each other as idiots. Mr. Jorg said that he hopes that this not become a habit. He said that he thinks we won't come very far by insulting each other. He made a call to change these actions to a better way to relate to each other.
Mr. Jorg also questioned the fact that Mr. Van Der Sloot attacked the Department of Justice for being out of balance, without management, untrustworthy and without any kind of ethics. Mr. Jorg remarked that these are large words but they demand arguments to show this as well. He finds that the argument cannot only consist of comparing the importance of finding the missing young lady against "all sorts of idiocy" from the other side. Mr. Jorg said that he can't unattach finding the young lady from the search for those people who are responsible for her disappearance. Especially when certain people are contradicting themselves and others about their role around the crucial moments during the disappearance.
Mr. Jorg continued to say that what he finds very strange is that on one hand the magistrates of the Department of Justice get questioned but on the other hand the Police get accused of not "have followed through" with the interrogation of a suspect. Mr. Jorg referred to the fact that in the Code of Criminal Procedings, a suspect has the right to remain silent. If this [right] is violated, then the case can even appear in front of the European Human Rights court. He thinks this observation [referring to the police] is absurd.
He also questioned the fact that blame was assigned to the police by saying that the suspect did not declare the whole truth to the Police. Mr Jorg asked if t his is not a choice that the suspect himself makes? He remarked that he was asking himself how a child can get it in his head to go weeks without giving a statement to the police.
This is a recap of the speech. It could be noted in the courtroom that the color of mr. Van Der Sloot changed, showing that he did not find himself comfortable. Many lawyers had comments on the reaction of mr. Jorg. Some lawyers opine that it was not the place nor the time to make this speech while other lawyers find it strange that mr. Jorg made such a speech but that mr. Van Sloot himself asked for it.
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jmo
No Nic
10-19-2007, 11:36 PM
But it's great for the rumor mill. Perhaps next we will hear that Anita was having an affair with Jorj and that is the reason that Joran must have been kicked out of the house. To some it will make sense LOL.
imo
Anita's affair wasn't the reason Joran was kicked out of the house. IIRC, he was kicked out because he couldn't get along with the rest of the family and beat up on his little brothers.
imo
Grandad
10-19-2007, 11:45 PM
Posted 3-20-07 on Natalee Holloway Discussion (part 2)
http://www.cspnv.com/archivo/pdf/March/15/A-15-3-07.pdf
Exactly where in that rambling report is a "public smackdown" of Paulus van der Sloot?
Grandad
10-19-2007, 11:49 PM
Anita's affair wasn't the reason Joran was kicked out of the house. IIRC, he was kicked out because he couldn't get along with the rest of the family and beat up on his little brothers.
imo
Stating Joran was "kicked out of the hose" is a gross misrepresentation.
Are you at all familiar with any facts regarding this case?
No Nic
10-20-2007, 12:25 AM
Stating Joran was "kicked out of the hose" is a gross misrepresentation.
Are you at all familiar with any facts regarding this case?
Your 1st sentence is only your opinion, my opinion doesn't happen to agree with your opinion (surprise, surprise !!).
As for your 2nd question, were you looking in a mirror when you ask it?
imo
HiLife
10-20-2007, 12:38 AM
Exactly where in that rambling report is a "public smackdown" of Paulus van der Sloot?
LOL - it's been clearly explained. I cannot help you further.
jmo
HiLife
10-20-2007, 01:00 AM
Anita's affair wasn't the reason Joran was kicked out of the house. IIRC, he was kicked out because he couldn't get along with the rest of the family and beat up on his little brothers.
imo
Question: What kind of people witness harmful or destructive behavior and then REWARD the perpetrator with his own separate apartment where he can easily sneak out to illegally gamble, drink and carouse until all hours on school nights?
Answer: E - N - A - B - L - E - R - S
:read:
jmo
Grandad
10-20-2007, 01:09 AM
Your 1st sentence is only your opinion, my opinion doesn't happen to agree with your opinion (surprise, surprise !!).
As for your 2nd question, were you looking in a mirror when you ask it?
imo
No, my first statement is a fact. One can't have been thrown of the house if he continues to live there.
Since I "hunt and peck" I was looking at my keyboard when I addressed my question to you.
Grandad
10-20-2007, 01:11 AM
LOL - it's been clearly explained. I cannot help you further.
jmo
You make it perfectly clear you can't help.
ortiga
10-20-2007, 09:40 AM
LOL facts? What do facts have to do with this case?
A drunken woman has stated that she didn't wish to return to her domineering mother and/or Alabama. Seems that even in her intoxicated state she managed to do as she wished. Shame that beth can't face some facts.
imo
I'm sure that Beth HAS faced some facts, but promptly discarded them because they would hamper the sale of Natalee Holloway products. Like she says now, her whole life has changed......now that she is a CEO and president, has a new voice and face, how can she go back to teaching youngsters how to pronounce expeshally. And teaching that one person can perpetrate another person. IE Natalee's "original perpetrators".
Sometimes the concept of "lowest common denominator prevails" seems to dominate in this case.
IMO
ortiga
10-20-2007, 09:44 AM
You make it perfectly clear you can't help.
No help here. They won't even attempt to answer why Beth lopped 5 years off her courtship with Jug, at least for the book she has. He says 8 years, she says 3. Hmmm, hiding something, I think.
That leads me to believe that whole story about the kids marking up her "escort's" car is another fake story. I think she says she didn't date much after that.
"Escort" is a curious choice of words. Or maybe it means what it says. Escort, not date.
IMO
ortiga
10-20-2007, 11:30 AM
Is it true that Beth didn't even dedicate her book to Natalee?
Will someone quote the dedication? Thanks.
ortiga
10-20-2007, 01:42 PM
No idea but it keeps tumbling rather rapidly in Amazon's ranking:
Amazon.com Sales Rank: #2,272 in Books
an hour later...Amazon.com Sales Rank: #2,302 in books
Grandad
10-20-2007, 01:45 PM
I read that at least one of Beth's book signings she said she was planning to have her ISTF "certify" "safe travel consultants."
Has anyone else heard this?
Does she actually believe she's qualified to "certify" professionals for any purpose?
Now, if she wanted to charge people to attend seminars on how to skim donations from trust funds or tax free foundations, that would be another matter.
I don't think many would question her expertise in those areas.
ortiga
10-20-2007, 02:24 PM
I read that at least one of Beth's book signings she said she was planning to have her ISTF "certify" "safe travel consultants."
Has anyone else heard this?
Does she actually believe she's qualified to "certify" professionals for any purpose?
Now, if she wanted to charge people to attend seminars on how to skim donations from trust funds or tax free foundations, that would be another matter.
I don't think many would question her expertise in those areas.
I hadn't heard that (about certifying safe travel consultants), but it's not surprising. I did read (where?) that Auburn U has some kind of safe travel course, and that it's now mandatory for students that are traveling. (Can't figure out how they enforce that). The ISTF site has a blurb on how the program was started and how they gave Beth and her cohorts money for web site development. Obviously she has no experience or qualifications to advise anyone as to "safe travel", or anything else I can think of, having failed in a couple of marriages, and having chosen to send her virgin daughter on a drinking vacation...I can't think of any advice I'd want her to give any young people, and I do think she should be prohibited from giving lectures on public property due to her propensity to lie.
The trick is to make mandatory whatever program she is dreaming up to make yet more money off her daughter. Maybe she can get the sheriffs group to make it mandatory for all new recruits or something like that.
Then they too will learn the buddy system, to cover their drinks, and to hang a "safe travel" thingie from the rear view mirrors of all squad cars.
IMO
fairmaiden
10-20-2007, 02:41 PM
I hadn't heard that (about certifying safe travel consultants), but it's not surprising. I did read (where?) that Auburn U has some kind of safe travel course, and that it's now mandatory for students that are traveling. (Can't figure out how they enforce that). The ISTF site has a blurb on how the program was started and how they gave Beth and her cohorts money for web site development. Obviously she has no experience or qualifications to advise anyone as to "safe travel", or anything else I can think of, having failed in a couple of marriages, and having chosen to send her virgin daughter on a drinking vacation...I can't think of any advice I'd want her to give any young people, and I do think she should be prohibited from giving lectures on public property due to her propensity to lie.
The trick is to make mandatory whatever program she is dreaming up to make yet more money off her daughter. Maybe she can get the sheriffs group to make it mandatory for all new recruits or something like that.
Then they too will learn the buddy system, to cover their drinks, and to hang a "safe travel" thingie from the rear view mirrors of all squad cars.
IMO
Hi ortiga .... Well, you know .... one of our regular posters thinks of Beth as a "success". There's something SO ironic about that, IMO. I'm not sure how they define "success" though. Is it a monetary thing ?? I'm assuming that no poster who posts here regularly, KNOWS Beth. So, being "successful" has happened since Natalee disappeared.
This "mandatory" course they are giving at Auburn U. .... what do they do. give someone a passing or failing grade ?? They don't graduate WITHOUT it ?? Are they going to request students to give their "traveling information" BEFORE they start class ?? I mean .... really !!
JMO
Grandad
10-20-2007, 03:37 PM
<snip>
This "mandatory" course they are giving at Auburn U. .... what do they do. give someone a passing or failing grade ?? They don't graduate WITHOUT it ??
JMO
Since they don't have the power to revoke a student's passport, maybe they put a permanent mark on his forehead if he fails the course.
ortiga
10-20-2007, 04:45 PM
Since they don't have the power to revoke a student's passport, maybe they put a permanent mark on his forehead if he fails the course.
Maybe she'll parlay Natalee's disappearance into such a career success that no passport will be issued without such a mark.
Luke Davis
10-20-2007, 08:19 PM
AU funds can be used for student field trips only if:
1. the trip is an integral part of the lesson plan in a course for academic credit -or-
2. the student is paying a fee (above and beyond normal tuition fees) to participate in the trip (ex. SGA sponsored spring break trip where student pays trip expenses through the SGA.)
http://www.auburn.edu/administration/business_office/policy_manual/travel.html#contents
My neighbor had to take a mandatory course before she was eligible for the exchange student program. She studied for a year in the UK.
JustMyOpinion
10-21-2007, 07:38 AM
I still can't figure out why Natalee who came from such a supposedly pious family acted so irresponsibly.
imo
I haven't heard Beth or Dave claim they were "a pious family", this must be your interpretation, IMO.
It is evident to me that Natalee and others were not made aware that bars are dangerous places where sexual predators target their victims, and they did not take adequate steps to protect themselves. Beth has said if Natalee had known what she teaches now, it would have saved her life, and she hopes other lives are saved by obtaining the information. ( paraphrasing).
I haven't heard Beth or Dave claim they were "a pious family", this must be your interpretation, IMO.
It is evident to me that Natalee and others were not made aware that bars are dangerous places where sexual predators target their victims, and they did not take adequate steps to protect themselves. Beth has said if Natalee had known what she teaches now, it would have saved her life, and she hopes other lives are saved by obtaining the information. ( paraphrasing).
I believe Dave and Robin are pious and regular churchgoers. Beth and Jug were NOT members of any church and did NOT attend church at all, or certainly infrequently. We heard not one word from Beth about her faith until many, many months after Natalee disappeared and when the other strategies began to fail, Beth unearthed her stations of the cross anecdote.
With regard to what Natalee knew or had been told prior to going on the drinkfest trip, we have a very inconsistent story told by Beth. Until the book was published, Beth had told us that Natalee was naive and didn't know or Beth had not warned her about what she could expect in Aruba.
Well, well, lo and behold in her book Beth suddenly tells of having a long talk with Natalee; that boys will no doubt find her attractive in Aruba and she should be careful as she could be targeted ... Someone has posted on another board the excerpt of what Beth purports she lectured Natalee about before leaving. What happened to her 'not having had Natalee long enough' to teach her what she should have known in Aruba??
Does this woman ever stop fabricating stories to suit her current agenda.
cassidy
10-21-2007, 09:55 AM
Does this woman ever stop fabricating stories to suit her current agenda.
No.
IMO
fairmaiden
10-21-2007, 10:02 AM
I haven't heard Beth or Dave claim they were "a pious family", this must be your interpretation, IMO.
It is evident to me that Natalee and others were not made aware that bars are dangerous places where sexual predators target their victims, and they did not take adequate steps to protect themselves. Beth has said if Natalee had known what she teaches now, it would have saved her life, and she hopes other lives are saved by obtaining the information. ( paraphrasing).
IIRC .... Way back in the beginning, Beth had made a point of telling Nancy Grace, I believe it was .... that Jug's son had gone on the same "celebratory trip", a couple of years prior. He had specifically warned Beth about C&C's, in particular . I'm not sure if he had talked to Natalee about it .... but the onus was now on Beth to warn Natalee about it, IMO.
Heli is correct when she says Beth has been inconsistent, as far as that goes. I've heard her say MANY times .... Natalee was not prepared for a trip like this.
I'm not sure who was in charge of researching trips like this one. Did the parents of kids on this trip realize ((they must have)), that "supervision" of these kids was going to be non-existent .... the end result being that there were 100 plus kids left to their OWN devices ?? IIRC, Beth was warned about the prevelance of drugs freely exchanging hands outside of C&C's. I remember her talking about that.
When you think about it .... it's a little like sending a toddler somewhere, and expecting it to fend for itself .... IF what Beth says is true about Natalee being as naive as she was.
JMO
Are we talking about the same Natalee that is able to recant perfectly bible verses by the hundreds? Are we talking about the same beth who's faith has carried her through this "tragedy"? Are we talking about the same young woman who taught bibleschool to young children?
If they weren't pious were they just faking it?
Careful review of my post will reveal that I made no reference to Natalee. We all know that Natalee is an uncanonized saint ... that's so obvious by viewing her BFF's
in action as evidenced by the 100's of pictures they so happily posted to the internet. ** Nuns don't party and befriend and generally socialize with alcoholics and druggies in the local bars
lol "recant" bible verses??? I think you best check the definition of "recant" Incidentally, muslim extremists (terrorists) must memorize the entire Q'Ran so memorizing
bible verses only speaks to a person's memory bank and is not necessarily indicative of a morally based lifestyle.
Grandad
10-21-2007, 10:20 AM
<snip>
It is evident to me that Natalee and others were not made aware that bars are dangerous places where sexual predators target their victims.
<snip>
I really don't think this statement requires any comment, so I'll just bump it for those who might have missed it.
I really don't think this statement requires any comment, so I'll just bump it for those who might have missed it.
Strangely, Beth has a completely new and improved version of the conversation she had with Natalee before she went on the trip to Aruba. Those of you who have the book know exactly what I'm speaking of.
Other sites have posted the paragraph from the book that details an entirely new story about the cautions Beth gave to Natalee. Does this woman really think everybody forgets the inconsistent stories she's told about this all along?
JustMyOpinion
10-21-2007, 10:35 AM
IIRC ....
When you think about it .... it's a little like sending a toddler somewhere, and expecting it to fend for itself .... IF what Beth says is true about Natalee being as naive as she was.
JMO
Natalee was not a toddler, and I doubt the majority of parents have adequately educated & prepared teens to best ensure their personal safety, JMO. Perhaps the spotllight on cases like Natalee's will prompt more parents to do so, JMO. Natalee was victimized by predators, IMO..and those who harmed her are 100 percent responsible for their actions, JMO.
Grandad
10-21-2007, 10:35 AM
<snip>
Does this woman really think everybody forgets the inconsistent stories she's told about this all along?
There seem to be quite a few posters on message boards and people in the media who have.
Grandad
10-21-2007, 10:40 AM
<snip>
I doubt the majority of parents have adequately educated & prepared teens to best ensure their personal safety.
Lord, help the youth of our country if this is true.
Grandad
10-21-2007, 10:47 AM
Natalee was victimized by predators? Good thing you have that "IMO" in there because Nat is the one that invited Joran to dance and to take jello shots off her navel. Nat was also the one who early on in the evening was he##bent on finding somebody to get hooked up with.
As far as I'm concerned, Nat is 100% responsible for her own behavior. Let me know when you have some, nay ANY proof that a crime took place in this case.
imo
Natalee wasn't a five year old who couldn't resist the lure of a piece of candy, or the opportunity to help a lost kitten.
If she was truly as naive as Beth would have us believe, Beth is guilty of child abuse.
JustMyOpinion
10-21-2007, 10:49 AM
Natalee was victimized by predators? Good thing you have that "IMO" in there because Nat is the one that invited Joran to dance and to take jello shots off her navel. Nat was also the one who early on in the evening was he##bent on finding somebody to get hooked up with.
As far as I'm concerned, Nat is 100% responsible for her own behavior. Let me know when you have some, nay ANY proof that a crime took place in this case.
Natalee was drinking and socializing with some of her classmates in a bar on the last night of her vacation. I haven't heard anyone but Joran claim Natalee invited him to dance or that she invited him to take a jello shot. Do you have a link statements from a witness who has corroborated Joran's claims? TIA. And if she did invite him to dance, or do a jello shot, so what?
This doesn't imply she wanted to become the victim of kidnap, rape or murder, which are the alleged crimes Joran is suspected of committing.
Grandad
10-21-2007, 10:59 AM
Natalee was drinking and socializing with some of her classmates in a bar on the last night of her vacation. I haven't heard anyone but Joran claim Natalee invited him to dance or that she invited him to take a jello shot. Do you have a link statements from a witness who has corroborated Joran's claims? TIA. And if she did invite him to dance, or do a jello shot, so what?
This doesn't imply she wanted to become the victim of kidnap, rape or murder, which are the alleged crimes Joran is suspected of committing.
I haven't heard a statement from any witness who claims Natalee didn't invite Joran to dance or offer to let him take a belly shot off her. Have you?
And there's not a shred of evidence, whoever initiated contact, that Joran committed any crime.
JustMyOpinion
10-21-2007, 11:15 AM
Not even Nat's mother implies in her book (othern than on the cover) that she was kidnapped, gangraped and murdered.
There have been plenty of links that showed that Natalee invited Joran to dance and take the jello shots. It's Sunday morning and my religion prevents me from having to work.
.
Joran was detained by local authorities on reasonable suspicion of involvement in the alleged crimes of kidnap, rape & murder. Please link to published statements from a witness who corroborates Joran's claims, since you say there are plenty available, TIA.
fairmaiden
10-21-2007, 11:18 AM
<<snip>>
. Does this woman really think everybody forgets the inconsistent stories she's told about this all along?
Heli .... Always good to "see" you. Personally, I believe she does exactly that !!
JMO
Heyes
10-21-2007, 11:34 AM
Are we talking about the same Natalee that is able to recant perfectly bible verses by the hundreds? Are we talking about the same beth who's faith has carried her through this "tragedy"? Are we talking about the same young woman who taught bibleschool to young children?
If they weren't pious were they just faking it?
I gather from the tone of your post that a person who can recite bible verses "by the hundreds", or someone who teaches bibleschool is somehow a negative thing? I feel that some on here find Natalee's deep commitment in her religion is somehow a negative thing. :shrug:
joran and his family don't believe in any religion, IIRC so i guess it's open season on Natalee's???
I find the mocking of Beth's and Natalee's faith offensive an insulting.
Heyes
10-21-2007, 11:40 AM
Natalee was not a toddler, and I doubt the majority of parents have adequately educated & prepared teens to best ensure their personal safety, JMO. Perhaps the spotllight on cases like Natalee's will prompt more parents to do so, JMO. Natalee was victimized by predators, IMO..and those who harmed her are 100 percent responsible for their actions, JMO.
But if the victim and her mom are not ridiculed and blamed, there is no defense.
imo
Heyes
10-21-2007, 11:47 AM
I'm ever so sorry that you misinterpreted my post.
beth's faith reminds me of the born-again christians on death row.
Regurgitating bible verses or poetry doesn't make person's religious beliefs or knowledge of lingual arts. It doesn't make a person pious, nor does it make a person a brilliant writer.
If Natalee were such a pious person surely she wouldn't have gone on a week long bingedrinking fest and no doubt she would have stayed close to her very caring and equally pious christian friends.
If I start talking with a Texan accent, does that make me a cowboy?
imo
I don't think I misinterpreted your post!
:eek: :chicken:
Heyes
10-21-2007, 11:50 AM
Joran was detained by local authorities on reasonable suspicion of involvement in the alleged crimes of kidnap, rape & murder. Please link to published statements from a witness who corroborates Joran's claims, since you say there are plenty available, TIA.
You will be waiting a loooooog time for a link that anyone can corroborate jorans claims my friend.
Heyes
10-21-2007, 11:54 AM
Based entirely on the ASSumption that there is a victim in this case, which nobody to date has been able to prove in any way shape or form. Unless of course we are talking about J2K and their families and the good and generous people of Aruba and the Netherlands who have been dragged through the mud.
What would you do if Nat comes forth, oh some time after her mother is well and truly dead and says "yeah I just couldn't stand it anymore, I ran away"?
Better scenario than believing your daughter is dead on day 10 of an investigation.
imo
The kalpoes and the vandersloots are not victims. lol lol
How could people that lied and lied and lied to railroad a kidnapping, rape and murder investigation be victims?
Heyes
10-21-2007, 11:59 AM
Then please explain how this pious family endorsed a week long stay on a "filthy" island "surrounded by water" where virginal, naive Nat was able to drink from early morning until late at night on an all inclusive funfilled adventure.
Well let's put it this way..
All was well until Natalee left with joran, deepak and satish.
And if she was as you claim, a virginal and naive young woman then that's exactly what predators look for.
The predators then took her away never to be seen again.
Enter paulus.
IMO
ortiga
10-21-2007, 12:08 PM
Natalee was drinking and socializing with some of her classmates in a bar on the last night of her vacation. I haven't heard anyone but Joran claim Natalee invited him to dance or that she invited him to take a jello shot. Do you have a link statements from a witness who has corroborated Joran's claims? TIA. And if she did invite him to dance, or do a jello shot, so what?
This doesn't imply she wanted to become the victim of kidnap, rape or murder, which are the alleged crimes Joran is suspected of committing.
As I have corrected you before, the fact remains that the crimes were not alleged to have benn committed, alleged in legal sense means indicted. They were suspected of having possibly committed a suspected, possible rape, etc. Key word there suspect, suspect crime etc.
IMO
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ortiga
10-21-2007, 12:12 PM
Joran was detained by local authorities on reasonable suspicion of involvement in the alleged crimes of kidnap, rape & murder. Please link to published statements from a witness who corroborates Joran's claims, since you say there are plenty available, TIA.
Do I get a sense of deja vu here...all over again. Natalees own mother did not deny seeing the photos of NAtalee up there on the bar as Joran describes. This was said on ACA as Beth Twitty sat right there and did not correct the interviewer.
What amazes me and makes me smile a little is the way some try to deny that those provocative acts took place, initiated by Natalee. Whereas I say sure they happened but so what....most 18 year olds do those things.
IMO
Heyes
10-21-2007, 12:16 PM
Just a reminder!
You will be waiting a loooooong time for a link that anyone can corroborate jorans claims my friend.
JustMyOpinion
10-21-2007, 12:18 PM
What amazes me and makes me smile a little is the way some try to deny that those provocative acts took place, initiated by Natalee. Whereas I say sure they happened but so what....most 18 year olds do those things.
IMO
I wasn't there.
I haven't read/heard anyone but Joran describe this, if you believe him, that is entirely your choice.
It doesn't surprise me that Joran claims she initiated and he felt provoked.
IMO, Joran speaks and behaves like a sexual predator.
Heyes
10-21-2007, 12:21 PM
I wasn't there.
I haven't read/heard anyone but Joran describe this, if you believe him, that is entirely your choice.
It doesn't surprise me that Joran claims she initiated and he felt provoked.
IMO, Joran speaks and behaves like a sexual predator.
Yup!
Blame the victim.
Classic.
JustMyOpinion
10-21-2007, 12:38 PM
As I have corrected you before, the fact remains that the crimes were not alleged to have benn committed, alleged in legal sense means indicted.
IMOi
Persons were detained on reasonable suspicion of committing specific, alleged crimes.
Allegations are statements of claimed facts which remain unproven, IMO.
Sturgeon_Moon
10-21-2007, 02:28 PM
If she hadn't trusted those young men, if she hadn't gotten in that car, if she had not, like so many other teenagers, viewed herself as invincible...
Natalee Holloway would have turned 21 years old today.
http://www.al.com/living/birminghamnews/kkemp.ssf?/base/living/1192954502321160.xml&coll=2
It seems Beth does, indeed, have much to celebrate.
http://steelturman.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/birthday_card.JPG
No Nic
10-21-2007, 02:53 PM
Alleged by beth, very good.
According to the FBI Natalee is just another missing person.
Not even an "imo" in this post :rolleyes:
I don't think it was only Beth that "alledged".
Earlier, Aruba's attorney general, Karin Janssen, told The Associated Press that the young men had been charged with murder since their arrest three weeks ago.
"The three have been charged with the murder of Natalee Holloway from the beginning" of their arrest 10 days after the young woman went missing May 30, she said in a recorded interview. "At the time, we didn't want to upset the family talking about murder while they searched."
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2005/06/30/world/main705394.shtml
A lot of us are still wondering what happened with these "charges", I don't think the Pros. would make these statements without proof.
imo