New twist...sorry but I had to put it out there..

[benhill29]

Does any one know for sure that Tara was last seen at the cook-out...what if there are those who have been questioned that saw her after the cook-out?

I have my reasons for placing this here. I am not saying this is true so before any one quotes me I am only throwing this out there due to information I received today.

:rose: Always for Tara

[bred]

As a constant reader...I've never heard of anyone who saw her AFTER the 11PM departure time. We learned early about those 3 phone calls after 11PM but nothing else...that I know of.

[benhill29]

That is what I thought to until today and now I am not so sure.
Maybe, just maybe this WILL be solved very soon.
:rose: Always for Tara

[NancynNC]

Originally posted by benhill29
Does any one know for sure that Tara was last seen at the cook-out...what if there are those who have been questioned that saw her after the cook-out?

I have my reasons for placing this here. I am not saying this is true so before any one quotes me I am only throwing this out there due to information I received today.

:rose: Always for Tara

We have not heard a name or person that saw her after 11 pm, but many of us speculated early that she changed clothes and left in her car. Some of us speculated that she may have went to the bar in Fitzgerald. She recieved a call from Megan who was at the bar. But we sort of left that theory because she was not seen by anyone.

[benhill29]

I didn't always follow the boards religiously until recently so I didn't know the information you just posted or I just looked over it as non-important. Now...it makes sense to me that it is VERY important so thank you for the info.

:rose: Always for Tara

[NancynNC]

Originally posted by benhill29
I didn't always follow the boards religiously until recently so I didn't know the information you just posted or I just looked over it as non-important. Now...it makes sense to me that it is VERY important so thank you for the info.

:rose: Always for Tara

The theory went like this. Tara got a phone call from Megan that MH was at the bar with a girl. Tara excused herself to Missy, saying she was so tired and went home. She changed clothes fast and was upset. Maybe throwing her stuff around and banging things. I act this way when I get mad. She took off to Fitzgerald or hid some where to catch him. And she did.

But I never heard anyone seen her.

[benhill29]

for the information.

Does any one out there know if there were any "local" parties going on that night? HMMMM????

[benhill29]

It's ok....I won't be on here much longer until later tonight due to ball practice starting up not to mention Thursday nights at the WH sometimes call my name...LOL

:rose: Always for Tara

[benhill29]

but that is very interesting too.
:rose: Always for Tara

[benhill29]

but I don't know where that fits but it may fit somewhere or it may be irrelevant.
:rose: Always for Tara

[benhill29]

I needed some humor. It does sound like that but I never became one because honest people don't make real good politicians.

If Tara did indeed go somewhere else and her house was made to look like she was abducted from home rather than her car being brought back the perps would have had her keys to let themselves in as many times as they wanted and thus lock the door on their way out...making every one believe that since her car was there she had been abducted from there. When in actuality her car was simply brought to her home in order to keep suspicions from arising once someone came looking for her.

JMO speculating


:rose: Always for Tara

[concernedperson]

Originally posted by benhill29
I needed some humor. It does sound like that but I never became one because honest people don't make real good politicians.

If Tara did indeed go somewhere else and her house was made to look like she was abducted from home rather than her car being brought back the perps would have had her keys to let themselves in as many times as they wanted and thus lock the door on their way out...making every one believe that since her car was there she had been abducted from there. When in actuality her car was simply brought to her home in order to keep suspicions from arising once someone came looking for her.

JMO speculating


:rose: Always for Tara

The car being there is definitely a diversonary tactic. Especially in light of the fact that her purse and keys have never been discovered. It all points to someone that knew her though.

[benhill29]

and it also works with the theory that she could very well have been somewhere else, harm came to her sometime later, and then the clean-up began.
:rose: Always for Tara

[NancynNC]

Originally posted by benhill29
and it also works with the theory that she could very well have been somewhere else, harm came to her sometime later, and then the clean-up began.
:rose: Always for Tara

A very good speculation, remember the bugs on the car and the hunk of clay.

[benhill29]

according to some Tara always locked her car...just as I do no matter where I am at...so the car wasn't locked and it leads me to speculate further that the perp slipped up on this little part of the clean-up.

:rose: Always for Tara

[concernedperson]

Originally posted by popcorn
ME spoke to Tara just a little after 10:00 PM before she left the cookout and not after this.




Thanks for a fact and I assume you wouldn't say this unless it was a fact. I am so tired of not hearing truths. It is like coverup is everywhere on the horizen and people are so circumspect that the truth of Tara is being lost. Sorry, just my frustration coming across.

[NancynNC]

Originally posted by popcorn
ME spoke to Tara just a little after 10:00 PM before she left the cookout and not after this.




What time did she call Maria H.?

[janis]

If Tara did indeed go somewhere else and her house was made to look like she was abducted from home rather than her car being brought back the perps would have had her keys to let themselves in as many times as they wanted and thus lock the door on their way out...making every one believe that since her car was there she had been abducted from there. When in actuality her car was simply brought to her home in order to keep suspicions from arising once someone came looking for her.

When in actuality her car was simply brought to her home in order to keep suspicions from arising once someone came looking for her.

Just brainstorming here, but if this happened, the perp would have to know, the Portier's were gone, (to the farm) right? I may need to go back and read, but I think NG transcript said, Mr. P said the car was there when they came home.....Somebody correct me, if I'm wrong.

[janis]

I apologize, I left out that I was responding to post by Benhill.

[NancynNC]

Originally posted by janis
If Tara did indeed go somewhere else and her house was made to look like she was abducted from home rather than her car being brought back the perps would have had her keys to let themselves in as many times as they wanted and thus lock the door on their way out...making every one believe that since her car was there she had been abducted from there. When in actuality her car was simply brought to her home in order to keep suspicions from arising once someone came looking for her.

When in actuality her car was simply brought to her home in order to keep suspicions from arising once someone came looking for her.

Just brainstorming here, but if this happened, the perp would have to know, the Portier's were gone, (to the farm) right? I may need to go back and read, but I think NG transcript said, Mr. P said the car was there when they came home.....Somebody correct me, if I'm wrong.

Mr. P said it was not there Saturday night when he got home.
I think he got home about 10pm. I could find it if you like. It was there Sunday night.

[NancynNC]

Yes, it was very convenient that the P's were gone that week-end. IMO

[jela72]

Maybe Tara mentioned to whomever (the person she was dating, someone involved in the Sweet T pageant, the cookout, her school friends ... etc ...) that the P's would be away that weekend. This may have been a passing comment made a couple of weeks - to days - earlier. The conversation could have been as innocent as (example):

"Oh next weekend is going to be really busy; my neighbours are away at their farm, I'm pet-sitting, I have the girls coming round to prepare for the pageant - AND ... I have a cook-out that night - phew - so much to going on!"

This information may have fuelled the perp's decision to attack, abduct, approach or accost Tara that specific weekend. (Less chance of discovery).

[fsbiii]

The original Meghan posting:

"Hey. After the Sweet Potato pageant a well known school teacher went missing about 12:30 am. Her name is Tara Grinstead and she is also a pageant director and she does my hair and makeup for local pageants. I am auctually her queen right now and we talked Saturday night until about 10:30 about me riding in the parade saturday and then we think she may have been abducted from her home. Her cell phone was left and her pocketbook was gone and the back door was unlocked. There was also a broken lamp beside her bed. We have searched since 2 am this morning and now im about to go to talk to the GBI becasue i was the 3rd to last person she talked to that night. Please keep Tara in your prayers. This is a very difficult time for the community so pray for us also. Thanks, M***N"

Originally posted by popcorn
ME spoke to Tara just a little after 10:00 PM before she left the cookout and not after this.

[fsbiii]

MH called Tara?

[fsbiii]

I think he meant M.E. instead of M.H. Who knows....

I thought it was established that MHu didn't talk to Tara that night after all?

Please let us know what you can, popcorn.

[benhill29]

*69 calls are not always calls that are answered. If I choose not to answer my phone and then *69 to see who it was then I get the number so I guess what I am trying to say is that the *69 could have been a call from her mother, HD, or whoever was looking for her and to me it is not as relevant as some of the other things. JMHO
:rose: Always for Tara

[NancynNC]

Originally posted by popcorn
ME spoke to Tara a little after 10:00 pm, which is her friend from the beauty pageant.






But Megan was at the bar????

[mooloo]

Anybody know how old ME is?

Originally posted by NancynNC



But Megan was at the bar????

[fsbiii]

20

[IBC]

Originally posted by NancynNC But Megan was at the bar????

This bar is about the only place around to go for entertainment, so don't be suprised that Megan and MH were both there.

[fsbiii]

'Tis the gem:

The original Meghan posting:

"Hey. After the Sweet Potato pageant a well known school teacher went missing about 12:30 am. Her name is Tara Grinstead and she is also a pageant director and she does my hair and makeup for local pageants. I am auctually her queen right now and we talked Saturday night until about 10:30 about me riding in the parade saturday and then we think she may have been abducted from her home. Her cell phone was left and her pocketbook was gone and the back door was unlocked. There was also a broken lamp beside her bed. We have searched since 2 am this morning and now im about to go to talk to the GBI becasue i was the 3rd to last person she talked to that night. Please keep Tara in your prayers. This is a very difficult time for the community so pray for us also. Thanks, M***N"

[concernedperson]

'Tis the gem:

Why do you think this a gem? You are quoting your own post.

[dixinites]

Thanks, FSB, I see what you mean. It's my first reading of the actual post, (tho somewhat fragmented, I wonder why???). I missed the circus the first time it came to town. Looks like I'll be getting another chance, since everything "old" is "new" again!

[fsbiii]

Lay off the venom, cp. The topic of Meghan's post was being discussed in another thread, perhaps you didn't notice? I merely found it and posted it up top to be viewed by those so interested...again. Christ sakes.

Why do you think this a gem? You are quoting your own post.

[concernedperson]

Lay off the venom, cp. The topic of Meghan's post was being discussed in another thread, perhaps you didn't notice? I merely found it and posted it up top to be viewed by those so interested...again. Christ sakes.


Good grief, I had no idea and most certainly no venom intended. It made no sense to me.

[fsbiii]

Well then. I must apologize. I was going on precedent of every other reply to my posts you've made for the past few weeks. Sorry for the mis-step.

Good grief, I had no idea and most certainly no venom intended. It made no sense to me.

[Its just me]

Why do you think this a gem? You are quoting your own post.

I'm just checking in but I think fsb pulled this old post he posted and brought it forward and it shows what ME posted on the board someplace. If I am not mistaken ME was discussed at some point today. It's is a gem if someone was asking about it. Simple as that. Why would it bother you. Surely fsb has sense enough to know he is quoting is own post expecially if he is capable of doing the many things he has been accused of doing. Have you forgot what you posted yesterday? I haven't so this is just a friendly reminder. IJM

[Its just me]

Sorry for butting in but I'm old and slow and my puter is even slower. Even I knew what was going on with fsb post. Good grief. IJM

[concernedperson]

I'm just checking in but I think fsb pulled this old post he posted and brought it forward and it shows what ME posted on the board someplace. If I am not mistaken ME was discussed at some point today. It's is a gem if someone was asking about it. Simple as that. Why would it bother you. Surely fsb has sense enough to know he is quoting is own post expecially if he is capable of doing the many things he has been accused of doing. Have you forgot what you posted yesterday? I haven't so this is just a friendly reminder. IJM

Get off my case. I have done nothing to you and I asked and he answered. Done deal.

[Path_to_Hope]

Lay off the venom, cp. The topic of Meghan's post was being discussed in another thread, perhaps you didn't notice? I merely found it and posted it up top to be viewed by those so interested...again. Christ sakes.

And it was very much appreciated Fsbiii.

[fsbiii]

By some. And I thank you, PTH.

And it was very much appreciated Fsbiii.

[Its just me]

Get off my case. I have done nothing to you and I asked and he answered. Done deal.

Well that is a fair statement with the exchange of one word "you've done nothing for me" but I never expected anything. But things were done for you with a good heart and it makes me sick to my stomach to see you slander one person after another for no reason except your personal agenda. This has gone on long enough and it time cp grew up and get over it. I know I'm not you mama but if I was I would be just as fierce with my decipline as I was with my kindness at a point you needed people very bad. You would know Mama had come by. You posted yesterday about being kind etc and it would be nice see you abide by your words. If you would read my post I think you could determine that your exchanges went on during me typing mine and waiting for my slow computer to put it on the board. Done deal with me also. I may be banned for this one but if I went one step further with you I know I would be. Your once upon a time freind. Fep aka IJM

[concernedperson]

Well that is a fair statement with the exchange of one word "you've done nothing for me" but I never expected anything. But things were done for you with a good heart and it makes me sick to my stomach to see you slander one person after another for no reason except your personal agenda. This has gone on long enough and it time cp grew up and get over it. I know I'm not you mama but if I was I would be just as fierce with my decipline as I was with my kindness at a point you needed people very bad. You would know Mama had come by. You posted yesterday about being kind etc and it would be nice see you abide by your words. If you would read my post I think you could determine that your exchanges went on during me typing mine and waiting for my slow computer to put it on the board. Done deal with me also. I may be banned for this one but if I went one step further with you I know I would be. Your once upon a time freind. Fep aka IJM

People sent up prayers for my daughter at TT and when I questioned a posters intent at TT then all went ballistic on me. There was no further compassion if I didn't tote the line. I am not a line toter. I stated what I believed and I was told I didn't see the truth. You stated to me a similar experience with the poster in question in a pm here. Of course,you are entitled to change your mind. Whatever has happened after I wasn't there to to defend myself. So, whatever the current perspective is only in the people propogating the perspectve.

[fsbiii]

Oh my. Here we are, still at the same place as before. It's all about you and your prayer requests and who didn't comply to your standards. Give it a rest and grow up, please. Please. PLEASE. What would it take?

(Hey Paula, this is what I meant about the personal axes and the vague assertions...just so you'll see a prime example of what roadblocks this board and valid discussion between people who can disagree w/respect...it all goes back to personal mess that has NO bearing on anything, IMO).

FYI, CP: You haven't been mentioned much at all since your exit at TT. Does that matter really? Not IMO. It's not about you, me, your daughter, Merrick, Results, or anyone else on this silly radar of yours. Grow up and move on. You will feel better and so will the rest of us.

People sent up prayers for my daughter at TT and when I questioned a posters intent at TT then all went ballistic on me. There was no further compassion if I didn't tote the line. I am not a line toter. I stated what I believed and I was told I didn't see the truth. You stated to me a similar experience with the poster in question in a pm here. Of course,you are entitled to change your mind. Whatever has happened after I wasn't there to to defend myself. So, whatever the current perspective is only in the people propogating the perspectve.

[Hey Paula]

Oh my. Here we are, still at the same place as before. It's all about you and your prayer requests and who didn't comply to your standards. Give it a rest and grow up, please. Please. PLEASE. What would it take?

(Hey Paula, this is what I meant about the personal axes and the vague assertions...just so you'll see a prime example of what roadblocks this board and valid discussion between people who can disagree w/respect...it all goes back to personal mess that has NO bearing on anything, IMO).

FYI, CP: You haven't been mentioned much at all since your exit at TT. Does that matter really? Not IMO. It's not about you, me, your daughter, Merrick, Results, or anyone else on this silly radar of yours. Grow up and move on. You will feel better and so will the rest of us.

Having been the victim of such on more than one occasion on these boards, I understand how these things can happen, even though we all know it's disruptive to the boards. Personal friendships and attachments are forged along the way, (at least that's how we might perceive them until the balloon bursts) and it's sad and hurtful to realize that disagreements/differences of opinions on a case, and groupie behavior e.g., can destroy those relationships. (This is what I meant when I said the sign of true respect lies in disagreement.)

IMO

[Its just me]

People sent up prayers for my daughter at TT and when I questioned a posters intent at TT then all went ballistic on me. There was no further compassion if I didn't tote the line. I am not a line toter. I stated what I believed and I was told I didn't see the truth. You stated to me a similar experience with the poster in question in a pm here. Of course,you are entitled to change your mind. Whatever has happened after I wasn't there to to defend myself. So, whatever the current perspective is only in the people propogating the perspectve.

You may not be a line toter but you sure are a revenge toter. Forget about TT that is in your past but you need to be called in with your vengence here on ctv...this has gotten tiresome. If it was just once in a while that can be over looked .....everybody is a smart a** sometimes but you are an every day pest we contend with. I am not going to apologize for what I have said because I truly thought you might listen to me. If there was a pm to you from here I have no copy or memory. All my pm's at TT are saved and this is worse than I thought and I give up you are own your own... but beware you are on a sad road and journey. Prayers you will think about what I said. IJM

[fsbiii]

I think you're way off base on this one, but I don't care to try to explain. It's useless. CP hasn't been a victim of anything "on these boards," but she can frame it up any way she wants. Groupie behavior hasn't destroyed anything, individual behavior has. True respect, IMO, lies in being respectful, no matter what type of agreeing or disagreeing is going. Respect is respect, plain and simple. Some give it, some get it - and some don't.

Having been the victim of such on more than one occasion on these boards, I understand how these things can happen, even though we all know it's disruptive to the boards. Personal friendships and attachments are forged along the way, (at least that's how we might perceive them until the balloon bursts) and it's sad and hurtful to realize that disagreements/differences of opinions on a case, and groupie behavior e.g., can destroy those relationships. (This is what I meant when I said the sign of true respect lies in disagreement.)

IMO

[Its just me]

People sent up prayers for my daughter at TT and when I questioned a posters intent at TT then all went ballistic on me. There was no further compassion if I didn't tote the line. I am not a line toter. I stated what I believed and I was told I didn't see the truth. You stated to me a similar experience with the poster in question in a pm here. Of course,you are entitled to change your mind. Whatever has happened after I wasn't there to to defend myself. So, whatever the current perspective is only in the people propogating the perspectve.

I have racked my brain over my pm because I don't want to be listed as a liar. I can not remember a pm I sent to you but I may have. I reread you post and you said poster in question so I take this as fsb. FSB and I have pm's back and forth on TT and there are a couple of things (one in particular) that he and I totally disagree on. I can assure you it has not stopped me one second from communicating with him in pm's or on the board. I am sure he can tell your there are many things I believe that he does not agree with but he has not stopped any particapation on his part toward any of my post. Some of his thoughts I don't agree with but the same goes forward. One thing for sure he is a person who will tell you like he sees it and he does not wear two faces which has gained a lot of respect from my way. And I ask his opinion by pm on many things. So "if" I pm'd you something and mentioned fsb did not believe it or agree with it did you ever see it have any bearing on how I participated with him or any other member. I wear my big girl panties everyday and would be a total fool to expect everyone to agree with all I post because I do have enough sense to know I am not the brightest bulb in the room. IJM
BTW I think it will take more than this stone to tear apart some internet friendships. Just for the record...I did not want to address you again but I felt like I needed to tell this because I have little memory but I do not intentionally lie. I am what I am.

[lighthousedazy]

After reading this thread this morning, I am done with this board for a while. I see cyber space is the only world for a couple of unstable minds. jmo

[PNut]

I'm with ya Lighthouse. It's just the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen! The nicswitchers and their supporters are so hypocritical, it's just maddening.

There's no new info. There's no new views. There are no NEW posters here with anything NEW to contribute.

I have a feeling I could stop posting here for 6 months, and come back to the same crap, with different nics. The Waters need to instate a new rule - if you don't have anything nice to type - then don't type it at all or it will be deleted. But then there'd only be like 3 posts on this forum. :rolleyes:

[Wildfire]

Does any one know for sure that Tara was last seen at the cook-out...what if there are those who have been questioned that saw her after the cook-out?

I have my reasons for placing this here. I am not saying this is true so before any one quotes me I am only throwing this out there due to information I received today.

:rose: Always for Tara

Just bumping this up and wondering if you have learned anything new?

[Its just me]

Just bumping this up and wondering if you have learned anything new?

BenHill has not been posting lately but if I remember correctly he visited the White Horse Bar in Fitzgerald on a regular basis. You might could check in there to get an answer. IJM

[sogalady]

BenHill has not been posting lately but if I remember correctly he visited the White Horse Bar in Fitzgerald on a regular basis. You might could check in there to get an answer. IJM

IJM, Wasn't that the White Horse Saloon ? I know that you have rode your horse up to the watering hole after a long cattle drive, wrapped those reigns around the hitching post and slid right up to the bar for a cold one ! hehehaha, Horse---Saloon,,,,,,,Motorcycle----Bar,,,,,,,just remember !:tongue: (sorry, I couldn't resist)

If Wildfire took your advice and went right on down there about closing time, I bet he could get Benhill or anyone leaving to really do some talking about that time,,,,,,,,whatcha' think ?

[Its just me]

IJM, Wasn't that the White Horse Saloon ? I know that you have rode your horse up to the watering hole after a long cattle drive, wrapped those reigns around the hitching post and slid right up to the bar for a cold one ! hehehaha, Horse---Saloon,,,,,,,Motorcycle----Bar,,,,,,,just remember !:tongue: (sorry, I couldn't resist)

If Wildfire took your advice and went right on down there about closing time, I bet he could get Benhill or anyone leaving to really do some talking about that time,,,,,,,,whatcha' think ?

You are tooooooo funny...almost fell out of my chair laughing. You know I don't have sense enough to know one from the other. But now I get it White "Horse" Saloon.. I'm fairly sure Ben Hill posted that he visited the WH but that was back and he may not go there anymore just trying to help Wildfire located him since he asked a question to BenHill. I would think about closing time some would be in shape to be talking but the problem the experience I've had with people in this kind of shape just might say anything. :rose: for my saloon lesson. love IJM

[sogalady]

I thought you would enjoy that on this beautiful Sunday morning, being the fun-loving kinda gal that you are !:cool:

[Wildfire]

BenHill has not been posting lately but if I remember correctly he visited the White Horse Bar in Fitzgerald on a regular basis. You might could check in there to get an answer. IJM

So I'm guessing this is a "no"? I seriously did wonder about this so called "new information" and that's why I bumped up the question. I wasn't expecting such a joke-a-thon for a simple question, but maybe I just caught a few in a silly mood. Anyway, no harm done if there's no new info.

[Its just me]

So I'm guessing this is a "no"? I seriously did wonder about this so called "new information" and that's why I bumped up the question. I wasn't expecting such a joke-a-thon for a simple question, but maybe I just caught a few in a silly mood. Anyway, no harm done if there's no new info.

I have no idea if it is a yes or no. BenHill provided a lot of information but has not participated in a while. BenHill posted he liked to go to the White Horse maybe on a Thursday. Not sure...Which is not a problem with me and I meant no disrespect to BenHill. If someone wants to take a break from life and enjoy a few at a saloon I say go for it.... I think we all have our own personal ways to relax and enjoy life.
Your reply is exactly why I made a joke about what you posted. You wondered about this "so called information" My take on you is you are here to offer nothing to the search in finding Tara but to add your delusion on the board. The only reqret I have is I included BenHill in my joke and I really meant him no harm so I humbly apologize to BenHill if he ever reads and to everyone for including BenHill going to the WhiteHorse to reply to something totally worthless and should not have been replied to in the first place. Carry on Wildfire. IJM

[fsbiii]

Can I prove what? (fsbiii asks the coward who posted the negative reputation knocker recently!) Is that fun for you sickos? I hope this won't get me an infraction for being 'uncivil' since it's really not directed at anyone but the anonymous slime who have taken this useless "reputation" system to forge their new vile attacks on people for no reason.... JMO

[Results]

Can I prove what? (fsbiii asks the coward who posted the negative reputation knocker recently!) Is that fun for you sickos? I hope this won't get me an infraction for being 'uncivil' since it's really not directed at anyone but the anonymous slime who have taken this useless "reputation" system to forge their new vile attacks on people for no reason.... JMO

It is sad that they are waisting their time on giving bad reputations instead of discussing Tara. Many of us remain here for Tara that some day we may know what happened to her. Several good posters has been given a bad reputations for a post saying thanks for your help all the way to just providing a link. This tells me they aren't even looking or reading a post they are looking for a posters name because that can only explain a bad reputation for a thank you or providing a link being helpful so now that they can post crude comments without having to post to get to us they seem to have disappeared from the boards. Has anyone else noticed the post count down again except for the ones that are really trying to get to the truth? Once again they prove who are here for Tara and who are not! JMHO

[Its just me]

Can I prove what? (fsbiii asks the coward who posted the negative reputation knocker recently!) Is that fun for you sickos? I hope this won't get me an infraction for being 'uncivil' since it's really not directed at anyone but the anonymous slime who have taken this useless "reputation" system to forge their new vile attacks on people for no reason.... JMO

FSB I have given the new reputation addition a lot of thought and I totally disagree with not adding your nic where there is a positive or negative. I am not allowed to post or send a pm without my ID so I will be held accountable for what I post of send to someone. Several years ago I would receive hang up phone calls after saying something negative toward my family or me. I reported this to the phone company and they would put a monitor on my phone but before they would do this I was told the caller would be prosecuted. Why would they be prosecuted.......stalking. What is the difference here with the hidden negative reputation knockers? IJM

BTW the answer to your question yes it is fun for them just like it was fun for the person calling my home. Too bad CL don't have the same standards as the phone company. MHOO

[fsbiii]

I'm turning off my reputation monitor so those that get a kick out of attacking can find another means. I'm sure they will. Sick fools.

[Results]

It is sad that they are waisting their time on giving bad reputations instead of discussing Tara. Many of us remain here for Tara that some day we may know what happened to her. Several good posters has been given a bad reputations for a post saying thanks for your help all the way to just providing a link. This tells me they aren't even looking or reading a post they are looking for a posters name because that can only explain a bad reputation for a thank you or providing a link being helpful so now that they can post crude comments without having to post to get to us they seem to have disappeared from the boards. Has anyone else noticed the post count down again except for the ones that are really trying to get to the truth? Once again they prove who are here for Tara and who are not! JMHO

Here is to the person who gave me a bad reputation on this one!
New twist...sorry but I... 04-29-2007 08:03 PM Nothing to do with Tara

Thank you for the bad reputation for caring about Tara and for proving my point in the same post that you are indeed not here for Tara! Again I thank you for proving my point!

[Its just me]

I'm turning off my reputation monitor so those that get a kick out of attacking can find another means. I'm sure they will. Sick fools.

I had not thought about doing this. I just did the same and in doing so I read my reputations. I have received some negative but not really bad ones and I truly appreciate all the positive ones. I appreciate each poster who is sincerely here for Tara even if we strongly disagree on issues. But I simply have no respect for people who come here only for the purpose of sowing discord. And I do not like the reputation with no name attached. If anyone would like to send me a pm to point out something I post for a negative or positive reason please feel free to do so. I'm not a FW reporter so don't worry....Only threats would be reported. Posting negative remarks about me on the board is also fine at least I will know who you are. IJM

[dixinites]

I'm turning off my reputation monitor so those that get a kick out of attacking can find another means. I'm sure they will. Sick fools.

Mine is off, as well. I have only had one negative remark which I would consider constructive criticism, the rest were just plain goofy. Thanks for the compliments, but I think I will post my opinions and remarks on the board for all to see. Has everyone voted on the poll regarding the "Reputation" system?

[Brainstorm]

Me too, the sickos are running wild.I got one that even shocked me,and also,whoever posted it, THAT IS PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME SINCE I AM FEMALE SO %$%^& off.

[Brainstorm]

Can I prove what? (fsbiii asks the coward who posted the negative reputation knocker recently!) Is that fun for you sickos? I hope this won't get me an infraction for being 'uncivil' since it's really not directed at anyone but the anonymous slime who have taken this useless "reputation" system to forge their new vile attacks on people for no reason.... JMO

It is sad that they are waisting their time on giving bad reputations instead of discussing Tara. Many of us remain here for Tara that some day we may know what happened to her. Several good posters has been given a bad reputations for a post saying thanks for your help all the way to just providing a link. This tells me they aren't even looking or reading a post they are looking for a posters name because that can only explain a bad reputation for a thank you or providing a link being helpful so now that they can post crude comments without having to post to get to us they seem to have disappeared from the boards. Has anyone else noticed the post count down again except for the ones that are really trying to get to the truth? Once again they prove who are here for Tara and who are not! JMHO

I'm turning off my reputation monitor so those that get a kick out of attacking can find another means. I'm sure they will. Sick fools.

Here is to the person who gave me a bad reputation on this one!
New twist...sorry but I... 04-29-2007 08:03 PM Nothing to do with Tara

Thank you for the bad reputation for caring about Tara and for proving my point in the same post that you are indeed not here for Tara! Again I thank you for proving my point!

I had not thought about doing this. I just did the same and in doing so I read my reputations. I have received some negative but not really bad ones and I truly appreciate all the positive ones. I appreciate each poster who is sincerely here for Tara even if we strongly disagree on issues. But I simply have no respect for people who come here only for the purpose of sowing discord. And I do not like the reputation with no name attached. If anyone would like to send me a pm to point out something I post for a negative or positive reason please feel free to do so. I'm not a FW reporter so don't worry....Only threats would be reported. Posting negative remarks about me on the board is also fine at least I will know who you are. IJM

Mine is off, as well. I have only had one negative remark which I would consider constructive criticism, the rest were just plain goofy. Thanks for the compliments, but I think I will post my opinions and remarks on the board for all to see. Has everyone voted on the poll regarding the "Reputation" system?

I havent said anything. I thought it was just me,getting rude and actually,IMO vulgar remarks. This is ridiculous.
JMHO

[lighthousedazy]

I think you all should let FW know your thoughts on this. jmo

[Brainstorm]

I think you all should let FW know your thoughts on this. jmo

I think she'll figure it out. jmho

[Brainstorm]

I think that's very good advice. I see no reason to attack posters' opinions via the reputation system. It is a cowardly way to just be mean. IMO.

You are so right there, Brooklyn.Its given some posters new life,( another form of deflection)IMO,but I dont even go there.I could care less what the cowards have to say.
jmho

[PNut]

I agree 100%!!

FW, this reputation idea might work on other sites, or even other boards here at Crime Library - but NOT on Tara's board! It's just not cool.

It's like giving a loaded gun to children.

I disabled mine too.

[mooloo]

I agree 100%!!

FW, this reputation idea might work on other sites, or even other boards here at Crime Library - but NOT on Tara's board! It's just not cool.

It's like giving a loaded gun to children or adults who are mentally challenged, socially inept, and/or emotionally unbalanced. There. *dusting off hands* That should just about cover it. :lol:

I disabled mine too.

I disabled mine, too. No way anyone was going to be given a fair and unbiased vote.

[dixinites]

:lol: I think you got it covered. Just a shame that their guns are loaded with such poisonous venom. What's the point, really?

This reminds me of one of the kid shows on Nickelodeon...I guess I'm not the only one that got "slimed", lol.

[mooloo]

And the more mean points earned, the higher the rating?

Oh, yeah!!! Than someone would end up with The Queen of Mean title.

Maybe it should be a reverse rating system. The more negative comments you get the more points you get. It's just a shame that differences of opinions on a case that has virtually no hard clues should cause such hateful comments. Of course, it's just my opinion but I don't like ugly. JMO.

[TuscanDreams]

In the grand scheme of things, who really cares what people say about me? :shrug: I've been nailed on the reputation thing as well, and don't care.

[One2Snoop]

Bump :rose:

[The R]

Having been the victim of such on more than one occasion on these boards, I understand how these things can happen, even though we all know it's disruptive to the boards. Personal friendships and attachments are forged along the way, (at least that's how we might perceive them until the balloon bursts) and it's sad and hurtful to realize that disagreements/differences of opinions on a case, and groupie behavior e.g., can destroy those relationships. (This is what I meant when I said the sign of true respect lies in disagreement.)

IMO


groupie behavior????


hmmmmm........:shrug:

ALLMO,
R

[Its just me]

groupie behavior????


hmmmmm........:shrug:

ALLMO,
R


LOL..:D :D .

What some memories.

I also want to add..I dearly love my Internet friends I've meet on Tara's boards. It was great getting to meet you R and also all the others that are what we call Family. (Too many to name) Some great people that will have a special place in my heart forever.

FWIW..I wonder if some people envy this kind of friendship. fep