Roses for Taylor & Communications to Her Family Only

[Hotwater]

Put all your well wishes and communications to Taylor's family here.

Thanks,

--Hh20

[protectkidz]

For Taylor and her family -

:rose: :rose: :rose:

[Dorkette]

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE !

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers - here's to you :beer:

Dorkette

[froggieholler]

to my new friends here at the Taylor Behl forum. May we all
unite in being as helpful and informative to each other and strive
to help Dorkette in our small ways. God Bless you all!
froggieholler


:rose: God Bless Taylor

PS. I had started a new thread before I saw this one that Hotwater had started. I am learning, slowly. :)

[TN_Profiler]

Originally posted by Dorkette
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE !

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers - here's to you :beer:

Dorkette

Happy Valentine's Day Dorkette! May the love of your family, friends, and supporters force you to smile today!

From me to you ..... I'm attaching some roses!:rose: :rose:

[sunnygirlinva]

Happy Valentine's Day to you and your family. People like you make the world a better place. Never forget that!

[Dorkette]

It was her smile AA...It was her smile...I just can't let the kid go...and ya know what?....I don't WANT to let her go...

I know the feeling! God, do I know the feeling.

And if you could have heard her talk and laugh - she had the best sense of humor.

A lonely mom

[justathoughtdj]

Originally posted by Dorkette
It was her smile AA...It was her smile...I just can't let the kid go...and ya know what?....I don't WANT to let her go...

I know the feeling! God, do I know the feeling.

And if you could have heard her talk and laugh - she had the best sense of humor.

A lonely mom

Dorkette

I am so sorry that you are going through all of this!!!!!!!!!!!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you! And if you even want to talk I am always here! I can't even imagion what you are going through as I am a mom myself.

Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are never alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:rose: :rose:

[vedder]

Originally posted by Dorkette
It was her smile AA...It was her smile...I just can't let the kid go...and ya know what?....I don't WANT to let her go...

I know the feeling! God, do I know the feeling.

And if you could have heard her talk and laugh - she had the best sense of humor.

A lonely mom

I don't even know what to say Janet....

There are no words strong enough for you to know how very, very sorry we all are...

I pray for you and Taylor everyday....

Love...
Vedder

[GreenEyedLady]

Originally posted by Dorkette
It was her smile AA...It was her smile...I just can't let the kid go...and ya know what?....I don't WANT to let her go...

I know the feeling! God, do I know the feeling.

And if you could have heard her talk and laugh - she had the best sense of humor.

A lonely mom

I am soooo, sooo very sorry for what you are going through. I don't even know what to say, except that we are here for you.

:rose:

[justathoughtdj]

Originally posted by Dorkette
I wish there was more information that was known by me and all of you. Your theories are all very interesting but I am afraid that we will have to wait until the trial to learn more facts or if Beeny-boy testifies more lies!

I have all the confidence that they have the evidence they need for the jury to find Beeny-boy guilty of 1st degree murder. It is that confidence and the knowledge that there are so many people hoping and praying for the same result that keeps me going.



:rose: For Taylor and for all of you

Dorkette


I think I can speak for everyone here that you have all of our support! We are praying for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:rose:

[4thetruth]

Dorkette: Just wanted to chime in here. I have been reading this board and following the news since Taylor was first missing. I have a daughter (11 years old--but yet that's only SIX years younger than Taylor was). Anyway, I always call her "Baby Girl," which I believe I read somewhere that you as well called your Taylor. My daughter reminds me a lot of what I've seen and read about Taylor and my heart breaks for you. I cannot imagine life without my "baby girl." Just wanted to say that if there can ever be any small "good" that comes from something so horrific, I would have to think that I can't possibly be the only mother out there who takes those few extra minutes or even seconds to do the little extras for our children who we tend to assume will always be here when really we never know. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope that small thoughts from those with big hearts help to ease your load. You seem like a wonderful person, and I believe Taylor's spirit shines through you.

[Belsma]

Originally posted by Dorkette
It was her smile AA...It was her smile...I just can't let the kid go...and ya know what?....I don't WANT to let her go...

I know the feeling! God, do I know the feeling.

And if you could have heard her talk and laugh - she had the best sense of humor.

A lonely mom

You won't ever let her go nor do you need to. She is with you all of the time and I'm just so sorry what you are going through. I know all this love and support can't make up for it....It's her smile that caught me too. The young life transferring into adulthood, on her own. Sweet, sweet girl that got taken advantage of. I'm so sorry again...:rose:

[TN_Profiler]

Originally posted by Dorkette
It was her smile AA...It was her smile...I just can't let the kid go...and ya know what?....I don't WANT to let her go...

I know the feeling! God, do I know the feeling.

And if you could have heard her talk and laugh - she had the best sense of humor.

A lonely mom

May God grant you the ability to keep her memory vivid until the day you are both together again.

It is quite obvious to me (and many others) that the apple did not fall far from the tree.

[Dorkette]

TN,

I would hope that if I fail in every other aspect of my life - her memory will always be there and I pray that it stays as vivid as it is today.

Dorkette

Thank you TN for your words of encouragement.

Peace, he was never up for the death penalty and again another reporter has this 2nd degree charge wrong. BTW, I don't know how many people are under the gag order.

[TN_Profiler]

Originally posted by Dorkette
TN,

I would hope that if I fail in every other aspect of my life - her memory will always be there and I pray that it stays as vivid as it is today.

Dorkette


If God listens to my prayers, then I don't think you have to worry about faded memories. It has occurred to me (everytime I see your picture) that you both looked very much alike. I always wanted to tell you that. It is intended to be a pure compliment.:D

[bananas]

Does anyone know how Taylor's father is doing? We hear and see so much of her mother. She even posts on this board. How is her poor father? We saw him a few times when she was still considered missing, but not much since. He was crying so sweetly on television. It was clear how much he loved his daughter. He seems so full of class and charm. We wish that dear man all the best in healing in this difficult time.

[jace]

I don't think any of us have forgotten about Matt Behl. Everyone handles their grief differently. I would think it would be difficult after having such a great loss to be thrust into the public eye too. Dorkette , you've handled yourself really well. Thank you for understanding what an impact your daughter has had on so many people and allowing us to feel closer to her by talking with you.

:rose: For Taylor, Matt and Janet

[bananas]

I know it must be particularly hard for him since he was a single father. Often you get very little value as a single father and most people seem to forget him while her mother gets so much attention. Of course she needs attention and seems to do well with it, but I think Taylor's father should not be forgotten. He seems like such a sweet man and we should not forget that he is in pain too. Extra hugs to Matt.

[TN_Profiler]

I am grateful that I do not know what it is like to be either of Taylor's parents. I have a guilty feeling of relief knowing that, for today, my child is safe while others are not.

For that reason, I give Janet and Matt the benefit of the doubt with anything they say and/or how they conduct themselves. I cannot, for the life of me, understand how some people can be critical of them. I only suspect those who are critical have not walked in their shoes.

I hold the same sentiments for Beth Holloway Twitty. The comments made about her make me question the direction of humanity in our society.

My advice to those who choose to be critical of them is this:

If you cannot freely exercise civility in how you communicate, then keep your pie hole shut and thank God you are not in their shoes. Go volunteer at the local animal shelter and stop wasting people's time on internet boards.

[janethompson]

Originally posted by bananas
I know it must be particularly hard for him since he was a single father. Often you get very little value as a single father and most people seem to forget him while her mother gets so much attention. Of course she needs attention and seems to do well with it, but I think Taylor's father should not be forgotten. He seems like such a sweet man and we should not forget that he is in pain too. Extra hugs to Matt.

I've been following this on the Boards for a while, but never bothered registering until I saw this post.

Forgive me, but your post almost seems like a back-handed slap at the mother, e.g. she "gets so much attention" and then "Of course she needs attention and seems to do well with it..." I'm just curious if that is the veiled meaning behind your post.

My best recollection is that Taylor's mother was camped out in Richmond in September and feverishly working to keep the case in the media spotlight. I would hate to be in her position and I think she handled the situation valiantly. Without her doing so, I'm not sure that Taylor ever would have been found. Perhaps I'm just reading too much into your post about Taylor's mother needing attention.

I think both parents deserve equal hugs regardless of who might be getting the "attention."

:rose: Taylor, Janet and Matt

[joeb]

Originally posted by Rowan
Forgive me TN, but I don't see anywhere that anyone on here has been anything less than polite and supportive of either Matt or Janet.

And perhaps if you have issues with someone, you should take them to them in private and make sure you have the whole story.

JMO.

Well said Rowan.Thank you. I have seen only support and NO criticisms at all on these boards of Taylor's parents. If you have it is only in your mind and interpretation of something that was not meant that way.
And TN more of us have walked in their shoes than you will ever know. TN maybe you misunderstood some things and jumped to conclusions that were wrong. As Rowan said you should check these things out in private to learn the whole story.
TN: Many messages go in Private Messages that you dont know anything about. Take it easy. Relax. We all agree that her parents are terrific and wonderful people.

[joeb]

Rowan that "you" in the second sentence of my post above is directed to TN not you. I just wanted to make that clear. I agree with you 100 per cent that there has been nothing but love and support from everyone on these boards for Taylor's parents. If TN thinks there was some kind of criticism it is only in their imagination.

[keldawn77]

Originally posted by Dorkette
It was her smile AA...It was her smile...I just can't let the kid go...and ya know what?....I don't WANT to let her go...

I know the feeling! God, do I know the feeling.

And if you could have heard her talk and laugh - she had the best sense of humor.

A lonely mom



Janet, I think of you often as I continue to follow Taylor's case, and I read about how close you two were and think of how completely unfair it is that she had to be taken away, it's a pain that no mother should have to feel. I hope so much that you continue to feel close to her and that you can always feel her with you. I wish that each one of us could lend you extra strength whenever you need it, we all would in a second! Much love and strength to you. :rose:

[bananas]

Janet, that is ridiculous to think that my love and support for Taylor's father is somehow negative for Taylor's mother. I just was wondering if he is ok. We can clearly see how Taylor's mother is doing, but since her father does not seem to like being in the public eye, we do not know how he is healing. I just wanted to send my love, thoughts, and prayers and to let him know that he is not forgotten.

[janethompson]

Originally posted by bananas
Janet, that is ridiculous to think that my love and support for Taylor's father is somehow negative for Taylor's mother. I just was wondering if he is ok. We can clearly see how Taylor's mother is doing, but since her father does not seem to like being in the public eye, we do not know how he is healing. I just wanted to send my love, thoughts, and prayers and to let him know that he is not forgotten.

It is Jane, and I'm sorry that my comment was ridiculous. I don't take anyone's love and support for Matt as a negative. Words must be chosen with care and I thought I detected some back-handed criticism. I'm sorry that I misinterpreted your comments.

As I said before, extra hugs for both Janet and Matt.

:rose: Taylor, Janet and Matt.

[TN_Profiler]

Hold up folks. My post was not directed to anyone who posted something in this link. It is strictly intended to point out how incredibly insensitive some people have been.

I think you have all taken it the wrong way. Spend 5 minutes on the Holloway board and you will soon know where my point of view comes from. 50% of all posts are bashing Beth Twitty. It makes me sick. There have been some posts in the past critical of Janet. Why? I haven't a clue. Of all people to argue with on an internet board..... she should be excluded. As I stated in my post, if you must disagree ... do so with civility. Those who revert to 'bad internet behavior' only drive away those who add thought provoking dialog.

Sorry for the disconnect. Carry on.

[TN_Profiler]

Originally posted by Rowan


Understood TN. I have seen (Laci board) more than my share of ill will spread than I ever thought I would see.

I do understand where bananas is coming from, and I don't think it was meant to be anything more than a heartfelt wish.

This is a subject that rouses passions. But I really would like to commend everyone on here for NOT stooping to the depths that others have on other boards.

For Taylor :rose:

What I have read on some of the other boards (notably Carlie Brucia and Natalie Holloway) is beyond the realm of tasteless. I am glad that it has not infected this board, although a few months ago I started to worry that it was sliding. This board remains one of the most supportive and intelligent boards on Court TV.

It just bothers me to no end when people feel the need to bash or criticize the family of crime victims. It makes no sense to me. :shrug:

I think Bananas comments were very appropriate. There are many people affected by this crime. As I walked under the crescent moon last night, I said a prayer for both Janet and Matt. Although they grieve in different ways (we all do) they both deserve compassion, support, love, and respect. From my little corner of the world, they are getting that.

[jace]

Taylor must have felt an EXTREME outpouring of love last night. I was riding home late and looked up at the sky and saw that crescent moon and she was the first thing I thought about. I'm sure alot of us did.

[4thetruth]

Yes, the moon is smiling down on all tonight.:rose:

[keldawn77]

I think it's really unfortunate that a thread titled "Communications to Taylor's Family" somehow turned into bickering back and forth over misinterpretations of words.
I've been a bit disheartened lately and have been coming to this message board less and less because threads often turn nasty and deviate so far from the topic . If you have an issue with someone, I think it would be better to take care of it with them privately. But in any case, please try to put your egos aside and remember what's really important here guys. :( :(

[Taxgirl2006]

Hello, Dorkette.

Just wanted to say hi, and let you know we are all still thinking about you and your family and that we all send our best wishes as well as our prayers your way. Stay strong...


:rose:

Taxgirl2006

[Dorkette]

Hi Taxgirl,
Thanks ! It is people like you that keep my spirits up!

Much love,

Dorkette

[Taxgirl2006]

Thanks for replying. I hope you get some comfort in knowing just how many people were and are touched by Taylor's smile. She just lit up the screen when I saw her photo, and I know the world has lost something important with her death. Some of the sparkle is gone. Anyway, I wanted you to know.

Sending you all of my hugs and prayers,


Taxgirl:rose:

[nibblet]

Hey, Hey Jude!

Where have you been? Long time no write!

:seeya:

[joeb]

Originally posted by Hey Jude
Hi Nibblet
Still check in every once in awhile. I see where this case is going and it's too damn depressing. This is going to get nasty and I'm not sure I really want to hear about it. The Chalmers defense is coming I'm sure...
Its Chambers. Not Chalmers.
http://www.cnn.com/2003/LAW/02/13/chambers.release/
But there are many differences in this case. Plus the Preppy Murder defense did not work for Chambers. He ended up taking a plea deal. 15 years and no parole. Lets all hope and pray for a much longer sentence for BF after he has been found guilty of course.

[janethompson]

Originally posted by joeb

Its Chambers. Not Chalmers.
http://www.cnn.com/2003/LAW/02/13/chambers.release/
But there are many differences in this case. Plus the Preppy Murder defense did not work for Chambers. He ended up taking a plea deal. 15 years and no parole. Lets all hope and pray for a much longer sentence for BF after he has been found guilty of course.

The defense did not work for Robert Chambers, but his defense team mercilessly trashed the victim in the media and in Court.

As I recall the victim in the Chambers case had a diary containing lurid details. I haven't seen anything regarding Taylor that suggests the BF's defense team will be able to grasp on to anything but straws.

The victim in the Chambers case also did not have a strong advocate, like Taylor's mother, who could refute the defense's tactics.

It should be interesting to see how this all play's out and I truly hope the end result is justice for Taylor as well as her name being preserved.

Jane

[Dorkette]

Hello :seeya:

Hey Jude, Taylor's cat, Spot and my cat, Quincy are sisters and we got them in England. They are fat and happy and have become much more affectionate. Taylor was an avid reader - mostly the classics. Writing - she hated writing for school papers. She didn't have the confidence.

Peace, the porn charges for Benny-Boy and the up coming court date, I believe is another preliminary hearing, there have been 2 in the past that have been postponed. I would imagine that the trial for the porn could come after the murder trial since they want to sentence him for the porn after the murder sentencing.

It is good to hear from you all,

Love and prayers,
Dorkette

[TN_Profiler]

Dorkette,

Just wanted to drop you a "hello". I've been thinking about you and hoping you are doing well.

I would expect the activity on this board to increase substantially over the next few months and you will have plenty of support all around you.

Best wishes for a good week!:)

Your friend.

[todom]

:rose:

dorkette,

i have a lot of love in my heart for you and your family.
I read about you all's cats, I wish we were all more like
cats. They are so very wise. I wish I were wise enough to
know the complete outcome of this so i wouldn't have to
watch this unfold in court. I know I will shed more tears
for Taylor just as I have but as we all know, some of the
toughest days are ahead. Chin up and smile :D just as
Taylor does. May love be with your hearts and a grin on your
chin :D

[Dorkette]

Hello friends,

I am pleased to say I have had a few good days lately - just watching spring unfold. I was hoping for some snow though.

Thanks for your postings and you are right things will be heating up soon.

Love and prayers,
Dorkette

[Friend of BW]

As the hearings and court dates approach... I think of you & yours and send all my best wishes. I pray that this perpetrator is exposed for the true crimminal and predator that he is and believe that this will all work out in Taylor's favor. Her memory will continue to be honoured.

[Belsma]

Originally posted by Dorkette
Hello friends,

I am pleased to say I have had a few good days lately - just watching spring unfold. I was hoping for some snow though.

Thanks for your postings and you are right things will be heating up soon.

Love and prayers,
Dorkette

I was hoping for some beautiful, white snow myself, but just nasty rain/sleet stuff today in Richmond. Been off for a bit, but I'm always thinking about you and Taylor. Perhaps we all need some colorful flowers and the smells of summer as the seasons keep us going. Hang in there lady!:seeya:

[Dorkette]

Good evening,
Lucky night for me ! It is snowing, probably won't amount to anything but it looks so peaceful coming down.

Dorkette

[Belsma]

Originally posted by Dorkette
Good evening,
Lucky night for me ! It is snowing, probably won't amount to anything but it looks so peaceful coming down.

Dorkette

GOOD! Did Taylor like the snow? Just curious as I think a love for it tends to be passed on through excitment and possibilities. What can we build, how wet can we get, how fast can we go....

[Dorkette]

As a matter of fact, she did especially when it would cancel school! When we lived in Ashburn Taylor and her friend had their picture in the local paper of them playing in the snow.

Here's to a good day!

[nibblet]

Originally posted by Belsma


I was hoping for some beautiful, white snow myself, but just nasty rain/sleet stuff today in Richmond. Been off for a bit, but I'm always thinking about you and Taylor. Perhaps we all need some colorful flowers and the smells of summer as the seasons keep us going. Hang in there lady!:seeya:

Boy, y'all really got hit with icy roads - I just read about the 42-car pile up on 64!

I'm all for spring and flowers to start now!! Where is the warm weather we had the other week!!

:seeya:

[Taxgirl2006]

We already have some green leaves here in Nashville. I can't wait for the cold to go away. Come on warm weather and sunshine!!!

[nibblet]

Hello - is anybody out there??

What happened to the regulars?? Where is Angel, Hey Jude, Peace, Peeparoo, etc???

:seeya:

[TN_Profiler]

Originally posted by nibblet
Hello - is anybody out there??

*snipped*
:seeya:

Chello! Yes, many active users are not posting but I think that has to do with the gap between arraignment and trial more than anything else.

Some of the others got kicked to the curb for being unruly.

:seeya:

[Dorkette]

Hey there,

I would imagine with the trial preparations in progress and only 2 months to go, those that are still interested in this case will (hopefully) resume postings.

Should be very interesting to see how much is shown on TV since the judge is allowing cameras in the courtroom. I didn't want them in there.

Take care,

Dorkette

[joeb]

Hi: I think we are all just waiting and watching. And will surely be here when the trial begins. I agree with you about the cameras. It seems to me to create too many distractions inside and outside the court. But on the other hand people want to know all the facts so what can you do? I am sure if it is carried on Court TV I will watch the trial. I dont think that small court room can possibly hold very many people.
As far as Spring is concerned this year I am patient. I dont worry about it and wish it would hurry up because I know it is happening slowly but surely coming our way and I dont want to rush it. May seems far off but it will be here soon enough. Until then be assured we are all thinking of you and will be with you in full force when the trial starts. All best wishes to you from me and my wife. If you like art try and get down to the National Gallery of Art and see the Cezanne exhibit and the Dada exhibit. I think you will like them.

[Hotwater]

It came to my attention that there really wasn't a place to put your roses and prayers for taylor. Now there is.

--Hh20

:rose: :rose: :rose:

[nibblet]

Originally posted by joeb
...If you like art try and get down to the National Gallery of Art and see the Cezanne exhibit and the Dada exhibit. I think you will like them.

I agree Joe! I saw the Cezanne exhibit and Audobon that just closed and both were great!

And... GO PATRIOTS!!

:seeya:

[Taxgirl2006]

By the light of the crescent moon, Taylors grace shines bright

:rose: :rose: :rose:

[Dorkette]

Hi,

I just got word that as of right now this is the way the court is allowing people in:

several rows for family, several rows for the kind citizens of Mathews and the rest for the media.

This could change since the judge has the final say.

Love to all,
Dorkette

[Dorkette]

Oh, you guys! Why do you want to make me cry! It's a good cry but this thread went straight to my heart. Thank you and God bless each and everyone of you!

As the trial get closer, my mind is going in a million directions, there are so many things I want/have to do and it seems none of them are easy.

Please write - it helps me so, so much I can't put it into words.

Now, I have to go find a kleenex. :)

Much love and appreciation,
The luckiest Dorkette in the world because of you all

[Dunlurken]

I haven't posted much on this board, but was closely watching the developments as we searched for Taylor and am anxiously awaiting the trial.



:rose: X 12 for Taylor

In the Arms of the Angels, Walking in Fields of Gold.

[Friend of BW]

Janet,
You are a wealth of strength. Taylor is a brilliant star and always in the thoughts of so many of us...the moon is a constant reminder and as each new cresent appears in the sky, you are ever closer to finding justice for your baby. We, here and all over the world, send you and yours our sincere hopes and wishes for a well deserved comfort.

[Alli]

Hi Dorkette,

I have been following Taylor's case since the beginning, but I do not post often. I wanted you to know that people all over the world are behind you and wish you great strength as the trial nears. Each day I think of you and your daughter, and I pray for you. I have never followed a case, but you have touched my heart. Please know that Taylor's lives on through all of us that have been touched by her. Stay strong, be her voice and know that the S.O.B. will get his.

Alli

[TN_Profiler]

Originally posted by Dorkette
Hey there,

I would imagine with the trial preparations in progress and only 2 months to go, those that are still interested in this case will (hopefully) resume postings.

Should be very interesting to see how much is shown on TV since the judge is allowing cameras in the courtroom. I didn't want them in there.

Take care,

Dorkette

Dorkette,

Hello. I got a comment and a question for ya'....

1) I'm still here often (although not posting much) and will be throughout the entire trial. Besides, since you have come to this board we all got to liking you, so at this point you're stuck with us.
:D

2 ) Just curious - did the court ask you for any input regarding the use of cameras?

[Dorkette]

Hi TN,

Thanks for still being here - glad to be stuck with those that are still here.

I did voice my opinion to Jack Gill regarding the cameras and I am totally against it. Did the judge ask me? No.

I was told the preliminary decision regarding how they are going to decide who is admitted into the court room is this: family, Mathews' residents and media. However, the judge has the final say.

Bye for now,
Dorkette

[Belsma]

:rose

May your light shine on baby girl! You are so loved!

[Belsma]

:rose:

My rose got broke last post! Hope it works this time! :eek:

[singlesix]

Hi. :seeya:

I imagine a lot of folks are like me and drop by to look for updates, but don't post. This time I thought I'd say hi. It took me a couple of tries to remember my password.

Just about everyone I know in Richmond is waiting - some patiently and some not so patiently - for the trial to start.

singlesix

[jadensmokes]

Dorkette and family,

I have read from day one about Taylor and have followed the case diligently. It's the first case to get my real attention. It got me interested in a couple of blogs and this site as well. I had to sign up to be a member here at CTV this week to let you know I am probably one of MANY that send prayers and positive thoughts your way daily. As time grows closer to bf's day in court please know that there are hundreds if not thousands of people that will bolster you with their prayers. The fact is, not all of us post, but we are here and we care for you.

Taylor truly has touched many lives. Her beautiful smile, her innocent trust, her crescent moons. She will not be forgotten, she will always be loved by many.

:rose:

God bless you and keep you in the palm of His hand.

[TN_Profiler]

:rose: for Taylor
:rose: for Janet

[nibblet]

:rose:

This is for the little girl who used to come visit us at our games. I'm sorry I didn't get to know her as she grew up.

:rose:

[poplife]

I also believe you aren't allowed to take pictures of the jury. How will the media comply with that?

Has that been a problem in other televised cases? Not to my knowledge, I could be wrong I suppose. I'm thinking BF's atty isn't a real good grandstander, I suppose we'll see.

[TN_Profiler]

The Judge will issue an order to the media that states: any photographs depicting a member of the jury will be considered contempt and you will go to jail for a period of time to my liking.
(paraphrased - of course)

Once that has been issued .... it's amazing how readily the media complies. They all know the ground rules and they know better than to test the judge.

I think the bigger issue is how the attorney's will behave. Hopefully they will be on their best behavior and will allow the legal proceedings to take place as they would if no cameras were present.

You were correct, the media is the group that petitions the court to allow access. Blah, blah, blah .... 1st admendment .... blah, blah, blah ..... then the judge rules. Not every case is granted media access.

[MATTHEWsevenone]

I keep hoping, I must admit, for news that there has been a plea bargain- that Ben Fawley is simply going to stay locked away for a very, very, very, very long time. So wish the family and good people of Mathews could be spared.

But I am confident that both - Taylor's family and the Good people of Mathews are up for this trial!

My prayers are with you Dorkette. They have been since September 9th of last year, when I first heard Taylor was missing.



:rose:

[TN_Profiler]

Hey Jude - I would say the Kobe Bryant case is the worst offense I have ever seen. A rape victim had her life destroyed because media outlets published her name. Then her face was splashed all over the internet once people knew who she was. This all goes against the rules of the court where sexual assaults are involved. They are supposed to remain annonymous unless they choose otherwise.

She faced threats on a daily basis, had to leave college, and eventually move out of her residence to another state.

No wonder she elected to take a civil award and skip the criminal phase of the case.

I don't think this case will approach that level of trash. I would think both sides can keep this reasonably civil. Juries do not like to see victims attacked in court or badmouthed.

My fingers are crossed for a fair trial that allows an impartial jury to rendure the verdict that fits the evidence. There is no need to trash Taylor in order to defend Ben Fawley. His defense should be limited to explaining away evidence, not reputations.

[nibblet]

I think the two Mathews attorneys (prosecution and defense) will keep it in check but I have misgivings about Collins.

Anyone know how he has handled similar cases with regards to the victim? He's out of Richmond, right?



:read:

[Taxgirl2006]

Originally posted by Hey Jude
QUOTE
My fingers are crossed for a fair trial that allows an impartial jury to rendure the verdict that fits the evidence. There is no need to trash Taylor in order to defend Ben Fawley. His defense should be limited to explaining away evidence, not reputations.
QUOTE

The only thing I hope, is that the judge will sustain the prosecution's objections when the trashing starts. He's her only hope now.



Great post, Hey Jude!! :beer:

I hope they keep it clean, but I have a sick feeling that says they won't...:mad:

[4MYGUYS]

Hey Jude,
Ditto, the GREAT POST!!!
OT-- Just one question. Do people still say Novenas? (Ouch, my knees still ache from the hard floor as a child. )

[Cino]

Janet,

I just wanted to say that everything I said on the phone still holds true. Be well, as much as is possible. The public's interest will wane soon enough, and then I believe you (as I and everyone else in this) will be more able to come to terms with this in a real-life kind of way.

I'm sorry if the publicity that you and Mr. Peterson asked for at the beginning of all of this wasn't right. I just gave everything appropriate I had to give, there wasn't anything more I could have done legitimately. I have very little desire to be false.

[Taxgirl2006]

Originally posted by Cino
Janet,

I just wanted to say that everything I said on the phone still holds true. Be well, as much as is possible. The public's interest will wane soon enough, and then I believe you (as I and everyone else in this) will be more able to come to terms with this in a real-life kind of way.

I'm sorry if the publicity that you and Mr. Peterson asked for at the beginning of all of this wasn't right. I just gave everything appropriate I had to give, there wasn't anything more I could have done legitimately. I have very little desire to be false.

Who the heck is Mr. Peterson???:shrug:

[janethompson]

Originally posted by Taxgirl2006


Who the heck is Mr. Peterson???:shrug:

Janet's lawyer who was assisting her when Taylor was missing.

[Taxgirl2006]

Originally posted by janethompson


Janet's lawyer who was assisting her when Taylor was missing.

Thanks, Jane...:)

[becurious]

Thank you for doing this.

:rose: for Taylor

[TN_Profiler]

Originally posted by Taxgirl2006




Great post, Hey Jude!! :beer:

I hope they keep it clean, but I have a sick feeling that says they won't...:mad:

That's weird, the quote is linked to 'Hey Jude' but it is actually my post. ??? Hmmm.... :shrug:

As far as the behavior of the attorney's .... I suspect the judge will put a kabosh on any 'grandstanding'. I cannot see this going down the OJ path in that anything less than professionalism by the attorney's will be considered a reflection of the court. (aka - the judge)

The Carlie Brucia case was televised and that had very little in the way of inappropriate character bashing. I don't think this case has much to do with reputations as it does with facts. I would think the jury is going to feel the same way.

[singlesix]

Re: Taylor bashing by the defense.

I like what my 80-year-old neighbor said about it:

"I can still remember being a young girl, we can all remember being young, and it won't do them a bit of good to try it."

singlesix

[nibblet]

Your neighbor is one smart lady!;)

[Dorkette]

Mike,
Thanks for the posting and you did what we asked and thank you. Your concerns about being called as a witness, I sent your mom some info and since the trial has been postponed until the 17th August - you have time to get organized. I believe if you are called, you should only have to be in Mathews for a day or 2 and they will pick up any hotel charges. Hope that helps.

Janet

[protectkidz]

Hi Dorkette:

This was really nice of you to post for Mike. I'm sure this whole process of testifying can be intimidating.

PK

[justathoughtdj]

:rose:

Janet

My thoughts and Prayers continue to be with you! There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you and Taylor even if I have not been posting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hugs
:rose:

[todom]

Janet i just heard they have delayed this trial. I can tell you
how sorry I am. It appears we will have to wait some more
but i truely feel the outcome will be worth the wait. prayers for you and your family. blessings for taylors soul.

:rose: :rose: :rose:

[Dorkette]

Hello all,
Yes, the delay in the trial has set me back somewhat - I had hoped for no delays but...

Thank you many times over for your thoughts, prayers and roses.

Love and roses,
Dorkette

:rose: :rose:

[Taxgirl2006]

Let's just hope the delay will allow the prosecution to nail the case. Stay strong, cause the day will come, despite delays. When it becomes too much for you, think of all the love and prayers coming your way, and know that you have your own guardian angel watching over you.

Hugs and Prayers to you from me, and most everyone else here, too.

:rose: :rose: :rose:

When the sun shines on your face, know our Saviors Grace
When the wind brushes your skin, look to heaven and grin
When the crescent moon shines bright, there you will see Taylor's light.

Taxgirl

[Dorkette]

Thanks Tax! The poem was beautiful.

The prayers and thoughts of all of you do help me get through the days.

Yesterday was a bit of a day but today I have been out getting a few things done and am feeling pretty good.

Dorkette

[Taxgirl2006]

You're welcome, Dorkette.

I am glad you are having a sunny day. If you need a cheerleader, just pm me. Have a great day!!!!


Taxgirl :seeya:

[singlesix]

Janet, your pm box is full. I'll try again later.

singlesix

[Dorkette]

HAPPY EASTER, BABY GIRL AND HERE ARE EASTER ROSES FOR YOU

:rose: :rose: :rose:


Love you,
Your mom, the Dorkette

[BFD - v2.0]

Originally posted by Dorkette
HAPPY EASTER, BABY GIRL AND HERE ARE EASTER ROSES FOR YOU

:rose: :rose: :rose:


Love you,
Your mom, the Dorkette

I may be overstepping my boundaries and if you feel the desire to tell me to mind my own business, that's okay; I would understand.

But I feel compelled to ask you a question.

How do you cope? Literally, what is the support mechanism in place to help you cope every single day?

If anything happened to my son, I think they would have to lock me up in a nuthouse. If it was a traumatic experience, such as yours, I think focusing on finding my child at first could take some of the pressure off because I would feel that I had a mission to accomplish.

But there have to be those times when you're alone, or you look at a picture of Taylor, or you have a vivid memory hit you... that it must be unbearably difficult.

Again, this may be way too personal of a question to ask on a public forum such as this and I completely understand if you choose not to answer. But you seem to gain strength from "something"... and I'm curious as to what that "something" is. I honestly don't know if I could handle the situation in the same manner that you have. (Which I would characterize as classy, respectful and with grace)

[Belsma]

situation in the same manner that you have. (Which I would characterize as classy, respectful and with grace) [/B][/QUOTE]

She is all that! She's got to be the strongest woman I've ever come across!
I'm with you, I would be in the crazy bin. Just lock me up!
Happy Easter baby girl! Love you and we are thinking of you always!

[Belsma]

:rose: :rose: :rose: :

[Hey Paula]

:rose: Remembering Taylor

[Dorkette]

I can't say it enough - you posters really do help me keep my strenght up !
Now, I have to admit everyday is a different challenge and somedays I can rise up to meet them and other days I wish I was locked up in the nut house.

The poem was lovely! Thank you for sharing.

My big challenge today is to get my taxes done - yes, late but not too late yet! Then I have to make arrangements to go to Richmond next week for the signing of some new laws by the Attorney General and I have been asked to attend.
Next week is Victims Awareness Week and they are holding a breakfast to honor and talk about what can be done to help those effected by crimes and what is being done to help those as well.

Thank you for all of the roses - God bless

Dorkette

[TN_Profiler]

Originally posted by Dorkette

Now, I have to admit everyday is a different challenge and somedays I can rise up to meet them and other days I wish I was locked up in the nut house.


Dorkette

May today be a day where you rise to meet the challenge.:rose:

I find you to be courageous when you have every reason not to be.

I find you strong when it would be easier to be weak.

I find you well spoken when a search for words and thoughts would render most of us speechless.

Your participation on this board has turned a name into a face. A face into a personality. And a personality into someone we can all relate to.

May God give you the strength to face your challenges tomorrow.:rose:

[Dorkette]

You all are so gracious! Today I have met each challenge but the day is young! Keep your fingers crossed that the rest of the day goes as smoothly.

And to each of you - have a good day!

Dorkette

[jaguar girl]

:rose: for Taylor

:rose: for Janet

[Belsma]

You looked great Janet and did wonderful!
Kudos to you all around this long block, as I know I could not hold up as well as you have! Take care and continue to know you are loved as is Taylor.
YOU ROCK DORKETTE! I send you Roses "infinity"--a new word my 6 year old learned which is hard to explain because it's undefinable as a number, but we all know it means "BIG"!:rose: x infinity!

[tiny paw-prints]

:rose: For Taylor

:rose: Family and

:rose: Friends

[jadensmokes]

Hi Dorkette,

I wanted you to know someone was thinking about you today and included you in prayers for strength, patience and to be filled with love.

Janet :rose:
Taylor :rose:

[Dorkette]

Hi Jadensmokes,

Thank you for your post! It means a great deal and just to let you know - today is a pretty good day! I have heard from several of my favorite people and your thoughts and prayers made it even better.

For you :rose:

Dorkette

[jadensmokes]

Oh, so the "filled with love" part of my prayer petition sounds like it has already been answered! I hope you continue to have a GREAT DAY!:seeya:

[Nascarpixy]

Janet,
I just wanted to thank you for being so special. It takes a wonderful person to reach out to those of us who are touched by your daughter. It is so nice to be able to reach out to the one person who meant so much to Taylor. You did a wonderful job with your daughter & Im sure she will live on strongly in the lives of us who are touched so much by her story. May god give you the strengh you need to make it through the trial and may he see fit to punish the one that did this to your wonderful daughter. Your daughter in my opinion was a chosen one who the good lord had a meaning for - to reach out to those of us and make us learn a very important lesson. Janet be proud to know that your daughter is probably saving lives as we speak. May many young girls her age be touched by what she has gone through & learn from what has happened. More than anything - Thank you Janet for being here for those of us who have been so touched by your daughter. Be proud to know how much she means to many of us.
You & your daughter have touched my life.
Thank you for all you have done.
Nascarpixy

God I pray you take care of Janet, let her feel the peace of knowing her daughter is in your hands and care, give her the strength to make it through the trial and give her the closure she needs by seeing that the person who has caused her so much pain get the punishment that you see fit. I pray in your name my lord. Amen
:rose: :rose:

[Tomjac]

Janet I hope that you are doing well.

For You :rose:
For Taylor: :rose:

[BeachPatrol]

For Taylor. What a beautiful girl she was.

:rose: :rose: :rose:

[BeachPatrol]

For Taylor's mom. For strengh...

:rose: :rose: :rose:

[Dorkette]

Welcome Beach Patrol and thank you for the roses and wishes!

Dorkette

[Perenty]

Normally I'm a crusty, unsentimental old coot, but this is something that really got to me, and I have to share it. A few nights ago, I slipped a CD into my stereo, one I hadn't listened to in a year or more, "The Royal Academy of Reality" by a group called the Swimming Pool Q's. It's really lush "ear candy" music. I had never paid much attention to lyrics.

Now, I'm not one of those people who looks for ways to make a song relevant to a person or event just because of one or two lines in it. But as I listened, the words to the first song on that CD really hit me.

LIGHT ARRIVING SOON
copyright Jeff Calder

her light has been delayed
her light has been denied
her light is arriving soon
there's a crescent moon outside

the features of her being
lend credence to my faith
in love a master weapon
that's turned against this place

her light, her light
her light is arriving soon
her light
outside a crescent moon

we're cloaked in many colors
she shines on all the same
her ray that knows know measure
her ray that has no name

her light, her light
her light is arriving soon
there's a crescent moon outside
a crescent moon, a crescent moon


http://www.swimmingpoolqs.com/light-arriving-soon/

[justathoughtdj]

Janet

Every day my thoughts and Prayers are with you! But even more so today!!!!!!!!! You are the first person that I thought of when my eyes opened this morning, even before I called my own mom.

I know it will be tough but know that you are not alone!

Hugs,
DJ
:rose:
:rose:
:rose:

[protectkidz]

for Janet :rose:

[Taxgirl2006]

I just felt the need to send you out some love after reading the thread Keen_Mind posted. I wanted you to know that I am still thinking of you and Taylor daily, and pray for swift resolution of the case against Fawley. No matter what is posted here, I come here because Taylor was from the very beginning when she was missing, and still is very important to me. I pray for the justice she deserves, and for an end of the pain that you and all of Taylor's friends and family have gone through, despite the fact that I never was lucky enough to have met her. God Bless!!

:rose: :rose: :rose:

Much Love,
Taxgirl

[TN_Profiler]

Dorkette,

I really liked what Taxgirl2006 wrote above. I send you the same sentiments.

:rose:

[Dorkette]

Hello Taxgirl and TN,

I don't know why Keen Mind got to me or why I let him get to me. But he was plucking my last nerve. Could be the anger phase or the fact that I have had a headache for a week. I am sure that there will be some people that are sorry he is gone and will be mad that I asked him to go. He hasn't gone far since they just moved the thread.

I love the thoughts and prayers as I have said before and they do bring a great deal of comfort. Thank you both and love and hugs and prayers to you.

TN how is Tahoe? I would imagine it is beautiful. I have never been there in the spring.

Bye for now,
Dorkette

[TN_Profiler]

The only way I can describe Tahoe is ...... amazing! It is the best place I have ever been to and I have traveled around the world.

PM me sometime and I will gladly send you some awesome pics.

Be well and God Bless.

[singlesix]

"Could be the anger phase or the fact that I have had a headache for a week."

Could be he's just irritating with his leave-it-all-to-us-well-educated-lawyers routine and his complete unwillingness to listen to anybody but himself. :)

Take care,

singlesix

[Dorkette]

Yeah, what you said!

:beer:

[nibblet]

Originally posted by Dorkette
Yeah, what you said!

:beer:

Now don't do too much :beer: or your headache will never go away!

:eek:

[Taxgirl2006]

Hey, I've got the next round...:beer: :beer: :beer:

Have a great Memorial Day, everyone.

[justathoughtdj]

:rose: for Janet

I hope that you had a nice weekend and that you know you were in my thoughts and Prays while we could not post.

Hugs :rose:

[Dorkette]

Thank you, I hope you and all the other posters had a very nice weekend. My girlfriend took me to her mountain getaway house and seeing the smallest sliver of a cresent moon in the clearest sky, my weekend was perfect.

:rose: For Taylor

:rose: For all of you

A very relaxed Dorkette

[Friend of BW]

Thank Goodness you could get a break. We will keep these boards running as long as it takes. We want to see this through for and with you.
From a good friend of a friend of yours in VA

[Dorkette]

Now that isn't fair to say you are a good friend...but won't accept emails or PMs. Will you give anymore hints?

Thanks for sticking with the message board!

For you :beer:

Dorkette

[Friend of BW]

Hi Janet,
Yes I know, I'm a bit of a private/paranoid person and tend to worry about strangers contacting me. I have a child at VCU and originally, I worried that this might be a very random crime and wanted to draw as little attention to my child as possible. Also, I didn't want to bother you as I know so many folks send you messages.

But since you asked: I'm Bruce's friend, the mom whose student had just finished the first year at VCU. Last July or August, Bruce was trying to set up a time for Taylor, you, me and my child to meet to talk of VCU, the campus, first year stuff, etc. I can't tell you how many times I wish we had managed to have that lunch. I know it probably wouldn't have changed the outcome for you and yours but I would have loved getting a chance to meet Taylor. I think of her everyday and of you too. Taylor and her friend at Starbucks, can't remember her name, actually waited on me once. I remember the two girls giggling over something and me waiting just a few minutes for one of them to come to the register. It was really quite cute and you could tell they were good friends.

So there you have it no big woop...just known Bruce for 30+ years.

Miss A

[Dorkette]

Thank for letting me know. And I do remember him talking about you and getting us all together. How is your child doing at VCU? Please let's still get together - get Bruce to organize another lunch. I need to toalk some business with him also.

Look forward to meeting you.

Dorkette

[ladyheartfixer]

Dorkette...
Just wanted to let you know that we are all thinking of you and what you are going through. My daughter and I have followed Taylor's story since day one and we want you to know we support you in the tough times you have ahead. When is the trial set? I know in a similar yet very different set of circumstances I was involved in it took forever to get a date and then for one reason or another it kept changing. I always watch for the cresent moon and think of Taylor...
Love and Light to you

[Dorkette]

Ladyheartfixer,

Thank you for your posting. The trial was set for May 30th but moved to August 17th and I am praying that the date doesn't get pushed back again.

Love and light to you and yours,

Dorkette

[lisauk]

Hi I am new to this site and I have been following Taylor's story via the internet overhere in England. She was a beauitful girl and my heart truly goes out to you. I wanted to send you this poem and I pray that it does not offend you in any way.

A Daughter chosen by Angels.

Daughter when I think of you I feel so truly blessed.
For you were the one the Angels chose and I know they got the best.
Each day thats passed each starry night your love has opened up my sight.
To the golden light around your soul that shines so bright and makes me whole.


:rose: :rose:

[lisauk]

Daughter: An Angel in my life.

I have an Angel in my life who helps me to get through.
She lifts me up and makes me smile, yes daughter its you.
Every hour of every day, I carry you in my heart, and I know you always think of me even thought we're far apart.
They say that feathers are special things that fall from Angels Wings.
So every time I find one I Know you are close by, my precious darling daughter beside the lord you fly.



:rose: :rose:

[jadensmokes]

Hi Dorkette,

I know this board has it's waves of flurry and then uncanny silence. But, there are those of us that visit and read everyday. We may not be posting but we're here. I just thought you should know that not a day goes by that you and Taylor are thought of and remembered with love.

With Father's day right around the corner, my thoughts go out to Taylor's father. And, my love is sent to you, as I know at times you occupied both roles of mother and father.

May God grant you peace.
:rose: :rose: :rose:
Jadensmokes

[jace]

That was beautiful lisauk. Did you write them?

[Dorkette]

Jade,

Thank you and I also check most days to see if there is anything new. August 17th seems so far away but I know the time will fly and then this board will be smokin'!

Love and prayers,

Dorkette

[Dorkette]

Lisa,

I also am wondering if you wrote that - it was just beautiful, touching and Taylor was an Angel here on earth and I know she is one above us.

Did you know that we lived in England and Taylor considered herself "Euro-American"?

Thank you Lisa and hope you will continue to post here.

Dorkette

[Friend of BW]

Hi Janet,
I'm sorry I didn't respond sooner to the above message. VCU has worked out very nicely and my youngster did do well this year. If it weren't for the high crime rate in Richmond we'd be really happy about the school. I'm glad we're both here now but before long school will start and then it will be back to the city and I'll sleep less soundly. It's odd but because of all the street robberies and a shooting next door to their place (two days after school started), in August, I started checking the Richmond crime reports daily. I actually saw an "abduction" report and noted how close it was to the campus. When I heard Taylor was missing, I immediately went back to that report and I wondered if there was some connection. I never imagined how much that false report would so impact the outcome for Taylor.

I feel deeply for what you are going through and I want you to know that I will continue to do whatever I can to help to make sure that Taylor's memory is honoured. I also want you to know that my child thinks of Taylor often and vows not to forget about her. We have so much in common and there are so many things I would like to say to you but I often feel uncomfortable, worried that I wouldn't say it right. The last thing I would want to do is make you feel sad. It seems so unfair that Taylor can't be here with you. But I am certain that she does come to you often.

About getting together, I haven't spoken to B. lately but maybe a Sunday brunch would work for everyone. I'll email him.

A
:rose:

[lisauk]

Dorkette

I am so very pleased you liked my poems. These actual two are from a collection of Angel cards that I use in my job, but I adapt them to fit each personnel circumstance. So I can't take all the credit:). I do however write poetry myself but I wanted to share these with you.

Where abouts in England did you live ? This makes me smile to know that your beautiful Angel has been so close and walked on British soil.


You are a strong woman and I feel honoured to have been able to talk to you.

Much Love
Lisa
xx

[Dorkette]

You are a very talented woman, Lisa! And I am the one that is honored to have you take the time and effort to put together such beautiful words for a beautiful child.

We lived in Medmenham and Camberley. Taylor's stepfather was in the RAF so we moved around often and ended up in Brussels.

Love to you,
Dorkette

[FrankieBones1]

Originally posted by Dorkette
Oh, you guys! Why do you want to make me cry! It's a good cry but this thread went straight to my heart. Thank you and God bless each and everyone of you!

As the trial get closer, my mind is going in a million directions, there are so many things I want/have to do and it seems none of them are easy.

Please write - it helps me so, so much I can't put it into words.

Now, I have to go find a kleenex. :)

Much love and appreciation,
The luckiest Dorkette in the world because of you all
My heart goes out to you. May justice come soon for Taylor and everyone that loves her.
:rose:

[Dorkette]

Thanks Frankie! Much appreciated and yes, the sentencing can't come soon enough. I know it won't bring Taylor back but maybe now we will be able to have some closure.

Dorkette

[ARIZONAGIRL]

:rose:

[becurious]

Thinking of you this Independence Day

[justathoughtdj]

Dorkette

I hope that you can at least get some rest on this 4th of July. And know that you are still in all of our thoughts and prayers every day even if we do not post.:rose:

[Dorkette]

Justa,
I did have a pretty good day with the most supportive friends, and family. Food was great, the company excellent and ranged in ages from 5 - 75 and the fireworks they had were quite good!
I hope your 4th was just as nice.

The support you all have given with your postings of thoughts and prayers have truly been a great comfort and a giver of strength (that doesn't sound like very good English but you know what I mean). Many a day I have looked at this site and have counted myself to be a very lucky woman to have you virtual friends.

God bless and thanks to you all!

Dorkette

[sunnygirlinva]

Dorkette,

I pray each day that you will be able to hold onto your strength and forge thru this trial and at sentencing that scum bag will have to pay with his life (or at least the freedom to have a life) for the pain he has put you through. You have walked with so much grace through this totally devistating experiance. I have said it before and continue to wonder each day....How could there be a woman this stong and (their is not a word grand enough to describe your impecable grace)?

Keep your head up high and try and find happiness everyday.

YOU have much love and support!!!!!

[TN_Profiler]

Just wanted to send a Dorkette my thoughts and support. I still drop by frequently but have been more of a reader than writer lately.

[Dorkette]

Hi TN and welcome Arizona :seeya:

Thanks for checking in and don't stray too far this week, especially Wednesday.

Love to you all,
Dorkette

[jace]

Please don't think I'm just being nosey Dorkette, but what happens Wednesday? I thought maybe I had forgotten one of the court dates or something.

[TN_Profiler]

Dorkette - I'll be here ...... count on it.

[Keen_mind]

Originally posted by jace
Please don't think I'm just being nosey Dorkette, but what happens Wednesday? I thought maybe I had forgotten one of the court dates or something.


Was wondering the same thing Dorkette. Also, left you some questions on the "jury selection" thread if and when you are up to them.

[Friend of BW]

Hi Janet,
I hope that you are doing well. I heard from Bruce a few times yet I have been ill so we never got anything together. I am doing great now so anytime you want to get out for a bit...just let him know and I'll be there. If possible try to take care of yourself as I'm sure things are getting more hectic these days.

[Dorkette]

Wednesday at 1pm there is a motion (filed by the defense) to be heard regarding a continuance.

Dorkette

[MATTHEWsevenone]

Dorkette,

I don't understand how in the world the Defense can ask for ANOTHER continuance! And at this late date...
They got one - a four month one in April after those letters surfaced. (along with the experts they asked for to help them prepare)

Hope the Judge says NO WAY!

I know this is an extraordinary tough time.

Please know I am truly sorry the Defense is doing this AGAIN.


V

[gemsbmw]

They are going to ask for it becasue they don't have the death certificate with the cause of death. I want them to have everything.

We don't need this thrown out over something stupid.


:rose: for Taylor

[jace]

After all this long how could they NOT have the death certificate or autopsy report?

[becurious]

Dorkette,

This must be excruciating for you and everyone involved. I think gemsbmw is right, that no one wants this to be thrown out on any technicality.

How are you feeling about this possibility?


:rose: Taylor

[jace]

becurious, how could it be thrown out? I'm not familiar with the legal system but Ben did admit to being responsible for Taylor's death whether it was accidental or intentional. It might change the degree of the charges but he's still going to serve time, right?

Dorkette, I'm sorry too. If the defense does get a continuance I'd try to look at the bright side...that it will give the prosectution extra time to prepare their case too.


:rose:

[Dorkette]

Tough day that's for sure! We just have to wait and see what Judge Shaw has to say. One day at a time, sometimes its one hour at a time.

Say a prayer and keep your fingers crossed.

Dorkette

[floridasweet5]

My prayers go out to the family of Taylor. :rose:

floridasweet5 from Vero Beach, Florida

[becurious]

Originally posted by jace
becurious, how could it be thrown out? I'm not familiar with the legal system but Ben did admit to being responsible for Taylor's death whether it was accidental or intentional. It might change the degree of the charges but he's still going to serve time, right?

Dorkette, I'm sorry too. If the defense does get a continuance I'd try to look at the bright side...that it will give the prosectution extra time to prepare their case too.


:rose:

I don't know that it could be thrown out, Jace. I'm not familiar enough with legal issues and loopholes. I have been following the Couey trial most recently and a few other trials and there seem to be so many little things that can get a trial thrown out. I don't know how important the medical examiner's report is to the trial.

[Keen_mind]

I will post a specific reply to this on the other thread so that Dorkette does not have to read it if she does not want to. If you are interested in why autopsy reports get delayed, check the Motion thread.

[TN_Profiler]

Dorkette,

From my neck of the woods, the crescent moon was magnificent last night.

May your skies be clear enough tonight to give you a glimpse.

[nibblet]

At Taylor's visitation guests received a card with the following script. I hope Dorkette doesn't mind me posting this.

"I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one,

I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when day is gone.

I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,

Of happy times, and laughing times, and bright and sunny days.

I'd like the tears of those who grieve to dry before the sun,

Of happy memories that I leave when life is done."

I don't know who wrote this as I would give them credit.

The card fell out this evening when I was looking for a book in my bookcase. And, the crescent moon is beautiful tonight.

I think someone is ready for her justice to begin.


:rose:

[jace]

That's beautiful. Thank you for posting it nibblet.



:rose: Taylor

[poplife]

That is beautiful, thank you again for sharing.

I have always liked this one, my uncle passed 3 days ago, a great man, so this is particularly fitting for me to remember right now.

Hopi Prayer
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint in the snow.
I am the sunlight on the ripened grain.
I am the gentle Autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush,
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry:
I am not there,
I did not die.

[Hey Paula]

Hi Nibblet!

Thanks for posting those beautiful words expressed for Taylor.

I look forward to justice being served for. Barring no further delays, the long awaited process will culminate in the conviction of Ben Fawley.

:rose: In Loving Memory of Taylor Marie Behl

[nibblet]

Poplife - sorry to hear about your uncle. I really like the Hopi Prayer.

nibs

[Taxgirl2006]

Dorkette

Just wanted to give you some support. I hope all the sniping on the other thread has not caused you any heartache.

Sending all my prayers out to you from Nashville. May God grant you peace in all the troubled times coming in the next few weeks.
I pray that God grants the justice that is so richly deserved.

God Bless
:rose:

Taxgirl

[Taxgirl2006]

Oh Dorkette

I am so sorry for the ugliness that surrounds you. I wish that I could take it all away for you. No mother should have to live through what you are living through. All of my prayers are yours. My heart is broken for Taylor and for you and your family. May God somehow grant you the strength to get through this horrible tragedy. Sending you all of my love from Nashville.


:rose:
For Taylor


:rose:
For Janet


:rose:
For all victims of violent crimes.

[lovelaw]

:rose: God Bless

[lovelaw]

Originally posted by Dorkette
Tough day that's for sure! We just have to wait and see what Judge Shaw has to say. One day at a time, sometimes its one hour at a time.

Say a prayer and keep your fingers crossed.

Dorkette


My thoughts are with you Dorkette. As the trial nears, I am reminded of how horrified and saddened I was upon hearing the news of Taylor's untimely death.

May the love of those around you sustain you during this time of great strife.

I will continue to pray for you and keep my fingers crossed, not just because you ask, but because I truly care.

God Bless:rose:

[Keen_mind]

I don't know if your a religious or not but I thought that this might help:

"Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls."
Matthew 11:28-29

I continue to pray so that you may have strength.

[Dorkette]

Taxgirl and lovelaw,

Thank you for the thoughts and prayers. As I have said many times before - they are truly comforting and so appreciated.

Dorkette

For you :rose:

For Taylor: :rose: :rose:

[ASTLemieux245]

Dorkette,

I've been following Taylor's case since the beginning. I was in Richmond (for my first visit ever) in the days following her disappearance, and I saw one of the missing fliers in a shop window. After that, I read everything I could about her. It seems like she was an amazing young woman, and I wish I could have known her.

Even through your devastation, you have remained strong and focused, and I know that is a tribute to her.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, especially in the coming months.

Sasha

[Dorkette]

Sasha,
Thank you for the posting and your first one at that. I do expect that the hardest days for me will be in the next few months when it is all over and done with. They are still telling me that it will truly hit me after the trial.

Prayers and love,
Dorkette

[lovelaw]

Dear Dorkette,

I just finished reading some background on this tragic case. In my reading I learned that Taylor's favorite perfume was "Dolce and Gabbana Light Blue". It brought tears to my eyes, as that is also my favorite fragrance. Now, each time I wear it, I will think of her.:rose:

Take care. :rose:

[Keen_mind]

Dorkette:

The upcoming weeks are going to be hard. Hard to read the message board and hard to sit in the courtroom. Hang in there and remember this quote:

"When I despair,
I remember that all through history
the ways of truth and love have always won.
There have been tyrants, and murderers,
and for a time they can seem invincible,
but in the end they always fall.

Think of it - always."

Mahatma Gandhi

In Memory of Taylor Behl :rose:

[becurious]

:rose: Prayers for Taylor's family. May you all find strength and comfort in each other throughout the trial and beyond.

[becurious]

RIP Taylor :rose:

[Hey Paula]

Dear Dorkette,

I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers every day, as is Taylor.

Justice, for your beautiful daughter, will soon be served. Although, regrettably, I cannot be in the courtroom to lend physical support, please know I will be there, in spirit, every step of the way.

May God strengthen you in the days ahead, as you watch justice unfold, and may that strength increase when justice is finally served.

:rose: In Loving Memory of Taylor

:rose: For You

[Dorkette]

Thank you Paula for all of your support thoughout these long 11 months!

God bless,
Dorkette

[snuffy]

Janet,

I hope today's news brings you some measure of peace. I've been reading this forum for a while now and my heart breaks for you, with all that you have had to endure.

:rose: for Taylor
:rose: for you and all those who love Taylor

[lovelaw]

Dear Dorkette,

I hope that today's revelations ease your struggles even if just the tiniest bit. You are in my thoughts and prayers as always, but today especially.

It has been a privilege to post with you here. Your bravery is exemplary. Your love for your beautiful daughter is obvious and pure.

I wish you peace.

:rose:

[Friend of BW]

To you I send all my best wishes and hopes for strenth and future joys. You have been a beacon to all of us. Stay strong and remember that Taylor is so proud of you. Your support for her has never ceased and I know never will. Being a single mother of an only child, I have the utmost repect for you.

[jace]

:rose: For Taylor

Janet,
We will never forget Taylor. She's been a part of our lives since the day she went missing and she'll continue to be. I have mixed emotions about the plea but one good thing is that you won't have to sit in the courtroom with Ben for ever how long the trial would take. I hope one day he finds it in his heart to tell you just what did happen that night. You deserve the truth. Taylor deserves the truth.

Please take care of yourself.

[ASTLemieux245]

Dorkette,

Thanks for your prayers and love....I just read about the plea bargain....and I'm seething mad.....is this justice?

Stay strong in the months to come, I believe you were correct when you said that it hasn't hit you yet....but remember that there are so many people sending their prayers to you....

Sasha
:rose:

[Jacebe]

Dorkette -

I took my daughter to VCU today for a campus tour. She's a senior this year and we're beginning the college search. My heart was heavy as we passed the Village Cafe and Gladding Residence and traced so many of the steps Taylor must've taken. I'm trying to let my daughter make her own choices as I know you must've done with Taylor. You and Taylor and Matt have been in our prayers since the day the first missing person report was aired last September. Knowing that words could never really say enough, we have silently held your hand to comfort you every step of the way.

I can only hope that with today's events, you will begin to truly find peace and that you will continue to feel the strength of those who will continue to support you, both visibly, verbally, and in silence. You are an amazing woman. Taylor must be so proud of you. God bless.

:rose: For Taylor, forever in our hearts. That smile will never be forgotten!

[ladyheartfixer]

Janet...
I have just read of the decision to alow the plea to go forth and I just want you to know that I wish it could have been life wop but...I can understand a lot of things that have factored into the decision. It gives you a chance to allow all of you...including Taylor to have closure. I hope you can understand what I mean. I really think she would have preferred this to a long drawn out trial that would have been so hard for those she loved.
I have been in that position before and to finally be able to walk away and get back to what is really important..remembering my loved one(s) and all of the time we had together. Letting the ugliness of everything go and being able to find peace in the fact that we have known someone so loving and sweet and courageous as you and your daughter.
LHF

:rose: for Taylor and Janet...love and light be with you

[justathoughtdj]

Dorkette

I am so PROUD of how well you composed yourself through all of this and I know Taylor is proud of you too!

You never gave up on anything reguarding Taylor and I know you never will.

I saw your statement on the news today and again you totally amazed me by your strength!

And I truly agree with you that the 30 years is just a start for him and that he will be loved to death in prision. I'm figuring that there are enough men all ready in there that saw you on the news today that will make sure it happens :)

I continue to Pray for you and your family daily! And even though he only got 30 years I really think it is better for you and Matt not to have to sit through a trial and the rest will be taken care of ;)

And always know that Taylor is proud of how hard you worked for her in life and after her death!

You did a GREAT Job!!!!!!!!!
:rose:

[jaguar girl]

:rose: In Loving Memory of Taylor

:rose: God Bless You Janet, Matt, Family & Friends

[TN_Profiler]

Dorkette,

For standing up when falling down would have been easier,
for showing the eternal power of a mother's love for a child is stronger than evil, for being the strongest when being weak would have been understandable ..... for those examples of strength and courage I am proud of you.

From my corner of the world I am hoping today is better for you than yesterday. I will also hope tomorrow is better than today.

:rose:

[TobyTiger]

Janet -
Stay strong and remember your beautiful daughter Taylor will always be with you, in whatever you do and wherever you go.
May God Bless You.
:rose:

[JillBean]

Dedicated to Janet, In Loving Memory of Beautiful Taylor...

ANGEL - by Sarah McLachlan

Spend all your time waiting
for that second chance
for a break that would make it okay
there's always one reason
to feel not good enough
and it's hard at the end of the day
I need some distraction
oh beautiful release
memory seeps from my veins
let me be empty
and weightless and maybe
I'll find some peace tonight

in the arms of an angel
fly away from here
from this dark cold hotel room
and the endlessness that you fear
you are pulled from the wreckage
of your silent reverie
you're in the arms of the angel
may you find some comfort there

so tired of the straight line
and everywhere you turn
there's vultures and thieves at your back
and the storm keeps on twisting
you keep on building the lie
that you make up for all that you lack
it don't make no difference
escaping one last time
it's easier to believe in this sweet madness oh
this glorious sadness that brings me to my knees

in the arms of an angel
fly away from here
from this dark cold hotel room
and the endlessness that you fear
you are pulled from the wreckage
of your silent reverie
you're in the arms of the angel
may you find some comfort there
you're in the arms of the angel
may you find some comfort here.

:rose:

[becurious]

And on topic:

:rose: RIP, Taylor.

[Hazel]

Hi Janet, I am happy for you that it is somewhat over, and of course there are no good words...

I will always remember Taylor, and hold both of you in my heart.

Something about Taylor makes me remember what a wise man told me last week... He is writing a book, spiritual and philosophical and sometimes beyond my comprehension, but...
He said we do not lose consciousness, in the sense that we know it, but awaken into a new life, and a new dimension.

:(
'
'
'
:rose:

[LADY2NOW]

To Janet, Matt, and all of Taylor's family and friends,

You've been in my thoughts, prayers, and heart for many, many months. Your courage and fortitude made yesterday's events possible. Please know that, whenever I see the crescent moon, or drive past the Mathews County Courthouse, or drive down the streets that encompass VCU, I will remember Taylor.

:rose: for Taylor and all her loved ones

[Dorkette]

Thank you Lady and Hazel and all posters with your kind words, thoughts and prayers. They are read with appreciation and bring a comfort when days like today are especially hard.

With love,
Dorkette

[allaboutfair]

:rose: For Janet, Matt, and all of Taylor's family and friends - may you now begin to find the peace and healing that you all so deserve.

:rose: Taylor, go with God, sweetheart.

[jace]

I think Taylor has been with God all along. She feels no pain, no heartache.

May God comfort and bless those still here, Janet, Matt, her Grandma, friends and all the others dear to her until they meet again.

We'll never forget you Taylor :rose:

[protectkidz]

To Janet, Matt and all of Taylor's family and friends:

As the horrific details of the last night in Taylor's life become public, please know that there are so many that are here and willing to share the burden of grief.

I know that I, as well as many others, will never forget Taylor and will continue to mourn the loss of her life.

:rose:

[aproudmom]

To the Family of Taylor I hope you know so many people feel like Taylor became apart of there Family when I saw you on Nacncy Grace and saw Taylor's pictures her smile was so loving and you were so strong I really admire you Janet. I have watched TV and I read everything I could about your Lovely Daughter and since this happened there has not been one day that I did not think about you and your family and Taylor.
You will always be in our thoughts and our prayers and I hope you felt Taylor got justice by the sentence. I am glad you did not have to endure a trial but I feel he need to get Life or worse. I also want to tell you your words after the sentencing were so heart touching and I am sure Taylor is so happy she had you as her Mother. Stay strong and we will never forget your little girl she will not die in vein.

Lots of Love from one mother to another mother:rose:

:rose: Rest in Peace Taylor you are a very SPECIAL ANGEL

Kristen

[bluedevil03]

To Taylor's family and friends,
God Bless you all and please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many people, and will always remain so. I have been so amazed at the strength of Taylor's parents, Janet and Matt, especially since I have a little boy myself (he is two) and I cannot imagine finding the strength that they have shown if anything ever happened to my little Connor. I am currently in a doctoral program at VCU, and just wanted to take this chance to pass along my best wishes for Taylor's parents. I just wanted to assure you that no one has forgotten Taylor there and they never will. I am so relieved that you all are not having to endure a trial and that the perpetrator has been brought to justice. I hope that Janet continues to post here and in some way, however small, that all the love and prayers here brings some consolation and comfort. :rose: for you all and :rose: :rose: for Taylor
~Laura

[miller8344]

Dorkette,

you are the most amazing lady. I have watched you several times on the video clips that I have come across and you are very strong and courages. I truly admire you and your strength. I wish i could just walk up to you and hug you and make all of your pain and misery go away. But until then i will pray for you. Just know that your beautiful daughter and angel Taylor is watching over you all day everyday.

With love,

Misty

[Julieeeee]

Janet and Matt..

Thinking of you and praying for you today. :rose:

For Taylor and her truth, which will always be stronger and purer than Ben Fawley's lies. :rose: :rose:

[protectkidz]

To Taylor's Family and Friends:

Today is a difficult day. Please know that many are thinking of Taylor today and sending love and wishes for peace your way.

[allaboutfair]

Previewing your Comment
RIP Taylor Behl


Prayers to you, Taylor, as well as your mom, your dad, and all of your family and friends.

Much love

[Dorkette]

Since the message board has virtually stopped, I will be updating friendsof taylor.com to give out updates like the speaking engagements that I have been asked to do and the airing of a documentary by 48 Hours on (I think) Nov 18th.

[justathoughtdj]

Janet

Thanks so much for the email!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think it is wonderful!!!!!!!!!!! I hope they break every bone in his body one bone at a time :D

Hugs
DJ

[Dorkette]

You are welcome. It is a shame he is having to live in a cell with a broke arm - NOT.

[jaguar girl]

Maybe next time they will break both his arms & legs

[DadinVa]

Originally posted by Dorkette
Since the message board has virtually stopped, I will be updating friendsof taylor.com to give out updates like the speaking engagements that I have been asked to do and the airing of a documentary by 48 Hours on (I think) Nov 18th.


Thank You for doing that. We think of you often and would like to be kept up to date---Tom

[poplife]

Originally posted by Dorkette
You are welcome. It is a shame he is having to live in a cell with a broke arm - NOT.

Is this new info or just a private club?

[Dorkette]

Poplife,

I am not sure what you meant by a private club - which it isn't - I just was trying to letting people know that Taylor's murderer has a broken arm. Also, since this board has been archived - I have updated and will continue to update friendsoftaylor.com.


To all: today would have been Taylor's 19th birthday.

My heart and prayers go out to the young woman's family from Arlington whose daughter's body was found today. They were furtunate in that respect. May God and true friends be with you during these tough times ahead.

What a difference it can make when you don't have to beg and plead for the "real" police to believe your story.

Dorkette

[candykisses]

Janet, I have tried to get in touch with you and your PM box was full.

Thinking of you and Taylor. :rose:

[jaguar girl]

:rose: Thinking of you Janet


:rose: Happy Birthday to a beautiful Angel named Taylor :rose:

[ASTLemieux245]

Happy Belated Birthday Taylor...

Dorkette, any idea on when the book is being published? I'm really interested in reading it...

Love always,

Sasha:rose:

[Dorkette]

Hi Sasha,

The book is to be on the stands on November 7th. You can order it from Amazon (cheapest that I have found).

Thanks for the interest. I would be interested in what you think of it.

Dorkette

[Dorkette]

I am amazed that the number of viewers on this archived thread still climbs everyday!

I wanted to let you know that I have updated www.friendsoftaylor.com

[vedder]

Originally posted by Dorkette
I am amazed that the number of viewers on this archived thread still climbs everyday!

I wanted to let you know that I have updated www.friendsoftaylor.com


I'm amazed at your strength, passion and resolve....

Thoughts, prayers and love

Vedder

[parominius]

I'm amazed at your strength, passion and resolve....

Thoughts, prayers and love

Vedder
jestem bardzo smutny....oddycham łzami,choć minęło już tyle czasu...bez niej tutaj....ślę tobie Taylor moje myśli..tam,do twojego raju...gdzie każde stąpnięcie twojej stopy budzi do życia kwiaty....niech myśli moje staną się motylami przed twoją twarzą...my sad..my pain...from my contry ..from Poland..

[bLackrose_ann23]

Hey guys..so sorry I came in late! Is there anyone here, regular posters?? Are you guys still posting? Please do. I want to make friends here.

Hi Dorkette! I recieved your e-mail! I hope you are doing okay now.

Bye for now:seeya:

[vedder]

Hey guys..so sorry I came in late! Is there anyone here, regular posters?? Are you guys still posting? Please do. I want to make friends here.

Hi Dorkette! I recieved your e-mail! I hope you are doing okay now.

Bye for now:seeya:

Hello ann23
You're just a bit late I'm afraid. The board has been very quiet for the last several months. Though, I still think some of us still check in from time to time. As ya can tell, I still do...Welcome nonetheless


And Janet, how are you dear one? Have not heard a word from you since Dan closed that last entry. Wating for a new "friends of Taylor" update<