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07-29-2005, 12:10 AM
I am writing this letter in hopes of finding some help with a few issues that I feel the Public should be aware of.Last year my soon to be ex was in the United States Army,and was deployed to Iraq.In July of 2004 my oldest daughter told me some very disturbing information.That her dad had done some horrible things to her.I later found out that he had done it to my youngest daughter also.I reported the sexual abuse to the proper authorities,and an investigation was started by the department of the Army CID unit.They told me that they were positive that my husband had molested my children.The Army brought my husband back from Iraq in December of 2004 pending criminal charges.In Febuary of 2005 I met with the prosecution for the Army,and was informed that they were not going to prosecute my husband,because they felt it would be to tramatic to my daughter's if they had to testify against my husband.I was very upset with their decision,because as their mother that should have been my judgement call not theirs.I went to the local athorities that same day,and filed charges against my husband.Thankfully we lived out in town in their jurisdiction for 5 months so I was able to file charges with them.

I have also done some research on the internet,and have found some really disturbing information.On the Killeen Texas Sexual Offender website I found that their are several men that have been convicted of sexual assault with a child ,and are still serving in the United States Army.They are also living on Fort Hood around innocent children.I am really beginning to believe that the United States Army condones such behavior.I will not give up on my children.I have fought long,and hard for someone to prosecute my sick ex husband for what he did to my daughter's.I have climbed the chain of command within the Army.I spoke with a woman who works at the Pentagon,and her response to me was "I am sorry that those things happened to you,and your children,but there is nothing we can do." I was shocked with her attitude about the incidents that had occured.I as a United States Citizen,and a mother would like for some things to change.I am my daughter's voices.I think the media needs to be aware of these type of issues that occur within the military.

p.s.I would like to discuss my story with someone,there is so much more to tell,but I would prefer to speak with someone in person or on the phone.

HeronInTheSnow
07-29-2005, 04:05 PM
Dear Missie,

They certainly do seem to be condoning it. I know you are posting for help and resources, I don't have those, but I want to offer my support anyway. You're a mother, you're a fighter. I am sure you will get some answers here.

(my naive inclination is to say try sending your story to media outlets, I hate to say it, but media pressure might make something happen, because the war is still going on, etc.)

peace :rose:

heron

(try open court, too, maybe)

07-30-2005, 01:01 AM
Thanks so much for the support.I am sending my story to everyone I can think of! I am hoping that if I send it to enough people,there is someone out there who will listen.I will have been fighting this for a year,and will continue fighting for my daughter's.

HeronInTheSnow
08-02-2005, 10:38 AM
Did you post somewhere else on CTV? Somewhere with maybe more traffic?

peace

jilli
08-31-2005, 12:38 AM
missie
:rose: for your children
I hope they are talking to someone other than you about this tramitic experience. I know that pain too. It's very important to get them therapy. You sound like a great mom. I hope you get the kinda help you need.
I will say a prayer for you and your girls.
GOOD LUCK:rose:

09-18-2005, 09:46 AM
Dear Missy,
I applaud what you are doing for your children. I would do the same for mine. If it's media attention you are trying to grab....try some talk shows. Montel and Maury for starters. I'm sure they would air your story across the US. Other then that, there really isn't much more I could tell you. :rose: May God smile upon you always

ladyheartfixer
09-18-2005, 06:53 PM
Missie...
Could you post that Killeen Texas website..my daighter is a teacher in the area and I would like to look at the site...
Thanks
ladyheartfixer

r_drummond420
10-03-2005, 03:14 PM
Missy, let me 1st offer my deepest sympathies to you and your daughter's. Now, after reading your story i and fumeing with anger. You said you needed to talk to someone on the phone or in person and i want to offer my support. I live in mesa arizona and have a phone you can call anytime. I think i can help you, having been a victim as a child at the hand of bio father who would force my brother and i to perform sex acts together so he could watch. My brother however was my best friend and protector and when he died at 17 (i was 12) i completely lost it.
I was institutionalized and medicated extensively but nothing worked and i ended up 68 pounds from being unable to eat and went into a coma where i almost died. Finally it was decided that hypnosis was my only chance for a normal life so i was made to forget that i ever had a father other than my step-father and that my never existed. My parents were told that if i ever remembered my past i would be institutionalized for the rest of my life. A year after my hypnosis i saw a picture of my brother in a year book and remembered everything. To this day non of my family members know i remember. I found out recently that my father was never brought up on charges for what he'd done to us and i almost went on a rampage for revenge. Thankfully i realized there was another way to use my trauma-induced sociopathic diagnosis for good. I fear your daughters are in danger of evolving into something terrifying if they dont get the kind of support that so few shrinks are aware of, and those who are aware are afraid to use. Please reply if there is anything i can do or anwser